freebird31 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 im starting to think that we are all just taught different kind of values, which differentiates the ****ty people from the good-hearted ones, idk just a theory. and humans are just selfish in nature we take people who truly cared for us, for granted out of nature, but later suffer the consequences. I know i truly cared for my ex being that he was my first love. and he might never realize that. another lesson im learning, that justice might not ever be served....who knows my ex might end up being happy and having a great life down the line, and he might never suffer the heart break or bull **** he put me through.. It's all just a huge learning lesson i guess. As my own personal logical explanation is, i believe that people take other people for granted that love you and truly care for you and want to be nothing but there for you...and once they throw that away they realize they made a mistake and suffer the ultimate consequences perhaps sooner or later on in life, that is when people learn and mature. Its just learning and maturing. You cant mature without expereiences and making mistakes. As humans, we are compelled to be selfish people..its in our nature. Why do you think there is so much BAD in the world? there's good and bad in every one of us. It is pretty much common sense. You have to lose something in order to realize how much you didnt appreciate it when you had it. And then you LEARN from that and maybe you have to learn again and again until youre left with nothing, and you realize that you have to appreciate the good people that care for you and to not take them for granted. and that's when you mature and want to make a committment to someone you care for. Until then, its all bull**** and learning. Idk, just my theory... either that or my ex is really evil douche bag. idk, one of the two. maybe both. Link to post Share on other sites
Viro12 Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 In positive light, that's just how things work. People are born to be selfish, but another way to look at it is their freedom to pursue happiness. Some people go on in life dumping one after another, and they end up with a perfect partner. Some dumpee keeps giving their full heart out after every relationship, and they still end up with ****. However the thing with maturity like you said is learning how to appreciate and be happy with what you have 2 Link to post Share on other sites
hurts2death Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 mature yes... also emotional inteligence my ex was from a family that thay were super poor... papa construction worker overseas and mama cleaner so they were doing anything they could to gain a social step to show as somebodies . they wanted their daughter not to suffer what they did and she became a creature that only gets from life..... so the reasons might be many,,, 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mcscooter Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 Like the saying goes. Two things define you: your patience when you have nothing & your attitude when you have everything. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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