OperationUnknown Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Well I have been dating this girl(now ex) thanks to advice on here, and I am doing more of a followup. We got into another argument last night over the fact i walked into her house(i was there earlier but left to take an exam) she was doing her hair and makeup and I asked whats the occasion for babe? She gets mad bc i didnt automatically say she looked beautiful. I was going to say that right after she would have told me. So i get kicked out and was asked to join her later. Well on her phone yet again she was talking to an ex(states away) saying she needed him and that she loved him even i though Im told she was over him and that she would no longer contact him. So I got my things and she said she was done and that since she hadnt been happy could i really blame her for talking to him. There wasnt a fight physically/verbally yet i get a text after leaving saying after that stunt she is getting a restraining order, which i dont know why if it was just her telling me to get out of her life. She has been emotionally unstable most the relationship. However when her anxiety goes down i always hear back from her and we end up "fixing" things and continue on. This process has repeated with the ex. I have taken her off my social media sites and haven't talked to her. Could anyone please give me the motivation and what i truly need to hear to stop this vicious never ending cycle? I do care deeply about her but it doesnt seem mutual anymore. Thanks
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