julia12 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Hi everyone, Well, like most people on here, I guess, I am looking for a bit of advice. I was going out with a guy for about 9 months (let's call him Chris). When we met, I was still not over my ex. Chris was understanding and nice about it, and I didn't want to let him go. He'd been in some dodgy relationships, too. Looking back, I guess I should havejust saidto Chris, let's leave it a while, until I am fully over my ex. Time went by, and I had a really hard time coping with it. Chris lived in the same city as my ex, and if I visited him, everything reminded me of my ex. Chris was (and is) a lovely guy, but full of insecurities himself. Long story short (kind of), he said we would meet up one weekend, then just didn't call me again. I've sent Chris an e-mail and a couple of texts. The e-mail said, I'm sorry if I ever made you feel second-best, I really did care about you, and it seems a shame to end things like this. Yes, I also sent him a couple of "I miss you" texts after that. I guess I know what the advice will be - just walk away, he obviously doesn't want to be with you. What makes it really hard, though, is that he did just that - didn't tell me it was over, either face to face or on the phone. Ironically, I have now moved to the same city as Chris and the ex (new flat). I bought a subway ticket to Chris's house the other week, then lost my nerve, and came back home. Should I ask him for something face to face, or what? I know our relationsip couldn't have lasted the way it was, something had to give. Thanks for reading this! Love the forum by the way. Julia
barky2 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Id chalk it up to he was a coward. Keep moving forward Maybe one day ull get the answer you're looking for...but it won't be the answer you're looking for. So keep moving forward julia. Barky
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