Tess Tickles Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 It is so long since it happened. I have not thought about it in years. Until yesterday when she sent a message on Facebook to say sorry. I did not even recognise who it was at first, her profile is a cat. I worked out from who we knew in common that it was probably her. It is a common first name and I don't think I ever knew her last name. She said she had felt bad all these years. She wanted to apologise. She hoped we were happy. I don't know how to respond or whether to respond or what she is wanting. why would she contact me after all these years? 1
road Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 No need to respond. Better yet do not respond to her. Though you need to block her to maintain NC. 3
Coolit Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 I am a ww who was involved with a mm so I will take a different approach. Take it at face value. She may have carried guilt a long time and wants to apologize. You owe her nothing but over analyzing it is not healthy. I would reply I accept your apology and only ask that you do not contact me again. Then choose to block her or not. 3
Zenstudent Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 I assume you are not responsible for her guilt? Then no contact, don't respond, block her. Out of your life.
HopingAgain Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 She's probably been in another relationship since then and been cheated on. So now she's identifying more closely to your feelings of betrayal and her role in hurting you and wants to relieve her guilt by apologizing. 2
Iris_88 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 I agree with HopingAgain. She may have simply carried this guilt for years and needs to get it out of her chest. Does not necessarily mean that she wants to start anything or that something in her life has gone wrong and wants to seek you out again.
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