Els Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 Yeah. I told him when we move in together I want it to be just us. He couldn't understand why. He said well crossed that bridge when wet get there, but when that time comes if we need the friends to stay because of financial reasons he's not just going to move out. I don't understand that. .. he lives fine now on his own and when we move in together I'll have a job and contribute to expenses. When he moved in with his ex, he moved it from living with this same friend, because she didn't want to live with him too. I said "yeah, no girl is going to want to. .." He still can't figure out why even after I have my reasons. Have you talked to him about putting your foot down re: "how when we move in together it will be the two of us, not the 3 of us"? What did he say to that? The financial reasons bit you mention above makes zero sense, frankly, because he's currently living with only ONE roommate - his best friend. If he were to move in with you, you would be one roommate too - why the need for 3 all of a sudden? If he had cared about having more roommates, he'd be living in a place with more of them NOW, not just him and his best friend. Honestly, it sounds like he's just making excuses to try and put it off.
Ouroboros Posted September 23, 2013 Posted September 23, 2013 Yeah right, because a man would let his room mate run his life like that. It is no different than hanging a tie on a door knob.
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