miss_jaclynrae Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 The fighting thread I started got me thinking, one of the two times we had a huge fight, it wasn't exactly a fight. The truth is that I ****ed up. He had every reason to dump me and what I did was terrible. It made me think about some awful things we have done to those we love. Me? Well I drove his car to school one day and got a ticket. Not so bad, if it wasn't for the fact that I did not ask him to take his car, and the fact that I had just lost my job and had no way of paying the ticket. It was the biggest mistake I ever made and I felt like a monster. The worst part was that I was so terrified that I kept it from him and planned on intercepting the ticket and paying it with my school money... but of course, he checked the mail one day and there it was.... It was a horrible day, and it took some time for him to forgive me for it. Not just to forgive, but to trust me again. Luckily everything worked out and I was able to pay for it myself. That was the biggest hurdle in our relationship. So confess, what have you done?
todreaminblue Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 i bought scotch fillet steak and i bought a can of pal pedigree dog food.......just found out he had cheated on me with one of my so called friends.......i fed the steak to my rottweiler........and made pedigree meatloaf......and he ate that....apparently it was really nice.......i added snipped chives some rosemary ....eggs.....and i made a caramelized onion gravy with roast root veggies.......to go with the meat loaf./.......he said i should make it again.......i declined......i did feel guilty after almost chickened out........and took the plate away but he hoed in so fast it was gone looking back it was a pretty awful thing to do .......i wouldnt do it again to anyone...i would have to say that yes...that si probably the most awful thing i have done......one day a friend of mine was over and he overheard her talking about it.....so yep got busted.....he wasnt that impressed, he was surprised though that i could make dog food taste so good...he did forgive me..deb 20
johan Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Deb you've jumped out to a commanding lead in the Johan's Favorite Poster contest! I'm actually considering stopping for a can of dog food on the way home tomorrow night. 4
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 i bought scotch fillet steak and i bought a can of pal pedigree dog food.......just found out he had cheated on me with one of my so called friends.......i fed the steak to my rottweiler........and made pedigree meatloaf......and he ate that....apparently it was really nice.......i added snipped chives some rosemary ....eggs.....and i made a caramelized onion gravy with roast root veggies.......to go with the meat loaf./.......he said i should make it again.......i declined......i did feel guilty after almost chickened out........and took the plate away but he hoed in so fast it was gone looking back it was a pretty awful thing to do .......i wouldnt do it again to anyone...i would have to say that yes...that si probably the most awful thing i have done......one day a friend of mine was over and he overheard her talking about it.....so yep got busted.....he wasnt that impressed, he was surprised though that i could make dog food taste so good...he did forgive me..deb OMG :lmao::lmao:
LBlanc Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 i bought scotch fillet steak and i bought a can of pal pedigree dog food.......just found out he had cheated on me with one of my so called friends.......i fed the steak to my rottweiler........and made pedigree meatloaf......and he ate that....apparently it was really nice.......i added snipped chives some rosemary ....eggs.....and i made a caramelized onion gravy with roast root veggies.......to go with the meat loaf./.......he said i should make it again.......i declined......i did feel guilty after almost chickened out........and took the plate away but he hoed in so fast it was gone looking back it was a pretty awful thing to do .......i wouldnt do it again to anyone...i would have to say that yes...that si probably the most awful thing i have done......one day a friend of mine was over and he overheard her talking about it.....so yep got busted.....he wasnt that impressed, he was surprised though that i could make dog food taste so good...he did forgive me..deb whew...the first few lines made me thought you poisoned the dog.
skydiveaddict Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 So confess, what have you done? I was gone all the time.
Anela Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 i bought scotch fillet steak and i bought a can of pal pedigree dog food.......just found out he had cheated on me with one of my so called friends.......i fed the steak to my rottweiler........and made pedigree meatloaf......and he ate that....apparently it was really nice.......i added snipped chives some rosemary ....eggs.....and i made a caramelized onion gravy with roast root veggies.......to go with the meat loaf./.......he said i should make it again.......i declined......i did feel guilty after almost chickened out........and took the plate away but he hoed in so fast it was gone I love it.
todreaminblue Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 whew...the first few lines made me thought you poisoned the dog. pffft smilin never in a million years would i hurt an animal i cant even tread on slugs and i hate them i save moths from ants...cheats though.....i suggest they dont eat my meatloaf...... my ex survived with no ill effects......i made it too damn good 2
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 pffft smilin never in a million years would i hurt an animal i cant even tread on slugs and i hate them i save moths from ants...cheats though.....i suggest they dont eat my meatloaf...... my ex survived with no ill effects......i made it too damn good Dog's food for dogs 3
RiceaRoni Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 (edited) i bought scotch fillet steak and i bought a can of pal pedigree dog food.......just found out he had cheated on me with one of my so called friends.......i fed the steak to my rottweiler........and made pedigree meatloaf......and he ate that....apparently it was really nice.......i added snipped chives some rosemary ....eggs.....and i made a caramelized onion gravy with roast root veggies.......to go with the meat loaf./.......he said i should make it again.......i declined......i did feel guilty after almost chickened out........and took the plate away but he hoed in so fast it was gone looking back it was a pretty awful thing to do .......i wouldnt do it again to anyone...i would have to say that yes...that si probably the most awful thing i have done......one day a friend of mine was over and he overheard her talking about it.....so yep got busted.....he wasnt that impressed, he was surprised though that i could make dog food taste so good...he did forgive me..deb OMG hahaha :lmao::lmao: whoa, what a comeback. Edited September 17, 2013 by RiceaRoni
todreaminblue Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Deb you've jumped out to a commanding lead in the Johan's Favorite Poster contest! I'm actually considering stopping for a can of dog food on the way home tomorrow night. make sure its pedigree pal with added marrowbone.....smilin atcha johan...deb 1
RiceaRoni Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Oh man, I know Ive messed up before.. I remember with my first ex, we got into an argument so bad, that HE ended up breaking down and crying...I never felt so terrible in my life because it was an issue I brought up, of course I was young-er at the time, and didn't know any better at how to solve relationship issues for it being my first relationship and all. I felt bad from then on and we tried not to argue like that again.
serial muse Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 i bought scotch fillet steak and i bought a can of pal pedigree dog food.......just found out he had cheated on me with one of my so called friends.......i fed the steak to my rottweiler........and made pedigree meatloaf......and he ate that....apparently it was really nice.......i added snipped chives some rosemary ....eggs.....and i made a caramelized onion gravy with roast root veggies.......to go with the meat loaf./.......he said i should make it again.......i declined......i did feel guilty after almost chickened out........and took the plate away but he hoed in so fast it was gone looking back it was a pretty awful thing to do .......i wouldnt do it again to anyone...i would have to say that yes...that si probably the most awful thing i have done......one day a friend of mine was over and he overheard her talking about it.....so yep got busted.....he wasnt that impressed, he was surprised though that i could make dog food taste so good...he did forgive me..deb What's marvelous about this is that you took such care with the preparation of it! Caramelized onion gravy with roasted vegetables??!? I'd eat that myself, damn it. I'm trying to think of stuff I've done but it all seems so petty and grey in comparison. 2
Keenly Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 I'm kind of coming up blank when trying to remember bad things that I have done in relationships. the only two things I can think of are. Girlfriend was treating me like a dog for a month or so, insulting me, bringing me down, criticizing me, analyzing and micromanaging everything I ever did and how it wasn't good enough. I asked a female friend from high school if she wanted to hang out sometime, girlfriend found that message, flipped out. I told her It would be nice to have some female company that wasn't a complete monster. Second thing is a long , long time ago, at the end of a 3 year relationship, I was trying to emotionally distance myself from her so I could break up with her, as she was injecting herself into every aspect of my life, and like always seems to happen in my relationships, eventually I'm not allowed to make my own decisions. In order to aid in this emotional distance, I put her name in my phone as "controlling woman" NEEDLESS to say, she went through my phone, as she demanded to every time we hung out, and she saw that, and I became the bad guy. I always seem to be the bad guy, even though I don't do things that are bad. I know that sounds easy to say but I'm serious. When I think about bad things they always happen to me, like my ex knocked a book off a shelf onto my guitar causing a large crack down the side. This guitar is a family heirloom from my father and his brother (who is dead) and her response after seeing me upset was "its just a guitar, get over it already." I would never do mean spirited things like that, because I'm just not a mean spirited person. I'm way too empathetic. 2
hotpotato Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 First ex: I made the mistake of blaming and shaming him. Yes, he had his issues, but I blaming and shaming didn't help. 2nd: I would go on and on about how I didn't want kids, was gonna get my tubes tied at age 30. If I could go back, I wouldn't have. Pregnancies are very stressful and possibly dangerous for me. I guess I pushed him away to some extent. if I ever end up with a guy again, I'd at least be open to trying to baby. Turns out his new girl is a ghetto fabulous clone of me but has a kid. Go figure. 2
todreaminblue Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 What's marvelous about this is that you took such care with the preparation of it! Caramelized onion gravy with roasted vegetables??!? I'd eat that myself, damn it. I'm trying to think of stuff I've done but it all seems so petty and grey in comparison. yeah it is pretty awful what i did...i honestly wouldnt do it again...i did actually feel guilt.........it is one of the stories that my friends have told when it comes to cheating partners i think its happened twice where friends who have partners have told them my cheffing ability because they were doubtful o ftheir fidelity.....the spouses looked pretty worried after that... that fact plus i have been asked for the recipe........moral of the story it is safer to be faithful if you enjoy your partners cooking..you never know..;0)..i am kidding i dont think i have heard of anyone else who has done that..just a deb thing............or is it....:bunny: why kill bunnies when you can make meatloaf from everyday groceries....deb 1
Anela Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 yeah it is pretty awful what i did...i honestly wouldnt do it again...i did actually feel guilt.........it is one of the stories that my friends have told when it comes to cheating partners i think its happened twice where friends who have partners have told them my cheffing ability because they were doubtful o ftheir fidelity.....the spouses looked pretty worried after that... that fact plus i have been asked for the recipe........moral of the story it is safer to be faithful if you enjoy your partners cooking..you never know..;0)..i am kidding i dont think i have heard of anyone else who has done that..just a deb thing............or is it....:bunny: why kill bunnies when you can make meatloaf from everyday groceries....deb I would have given some to the "friend" too, but one can of dog food wouldn't stretch that far, would it?
todreaminblue Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 I would have given some to the "friend" too, but one can of dog food wouldn't stretch that far, would it? lol..no it wouldnt anela...one can one person..no i just never saw her again...i think that betrayal hurt me more i twas her birthday and i had catered a birthday party fro her ...organised everything...food her fave music all her friends............djed all night to keep th eparty going...at the end of the night she was wasted and told me she was screaming at me how she wished i would roll over and die get hit by a car.....yelling obscenities at me....i was so hurt and so confused by her behavior, couldnt understand what i had done wrong...i thought she hated the party.............then later that night when i was crying, my partner told me why she was the way she was he couldnt stand that i blamed myself .........so he admitted.......i never saw her again........and my ex got dinner........in a way it was good i found out who she really was......i would probably still be friends with her......things happen for a reason....and dog food seems pale in comparison......deb
TheGuard13 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 I kissed a girl and I liked it. When I was married, I used to bug my wife about her use of makeup and her choice of clothing. She would either use none or she would leave it on for days and it would run and look just awful. And she would take about as much care when she dressed, and wear clothes for days, etc.
Divasu Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 So confess, what have you done? I drove an ex's truck over a guard rail by accident after it skidded in the snow and did a 360 spin down a hill. (okay, so that wasn't exactly on purpose...). Yearrrrs ago, I got so pissed after something said to me, I took all his stuff from my house including photos in frames of us, put it in a plastic garbage bag and dumped it on the side of the road. 2
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