MrTurk Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Out of no where today....a memory of my ex-gf popped into my head. I remember how when it was time for me to leave...she would walk to my car with me, I'd get in and start it up, roll my window down, and she would kiss me goodbye. Sometimes that would be it, and we'd say goodbye, and I would drive off. Other times, I'd roll down the window, she would kiss me, and tell me she didnt want me to leave...she would crawl in through the car window and hold onto me....not let me drive away I miss you so much 3
Author MrTurk Posted September 17, 2013 Author Posted September 17, 2013 Nobody is ever going to have feelings like that for me again.
tinker683 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Nobody is ever going to have feelings like that for me again. Rubbish. I've fallen in love twice and both relationships failed and I'm still here. I know damned well I'll fall in love again. What we're chasing is a feeling, not a person. You will find love again, just focus on yourself right now and leave her behind. 1
Author MrTurk Posted September 18, 2013 Author Posted September 18, 2013 Rubbish. I've fallen in love twice and both relationships failed and I'm still here. I know damned well I'll fall in love again. What we're chasing is a feeling, not a person. You will find love again, just focus on yourself right now and leave her behind. You do not know me or my situation. Saying I will find love again is no different than telling us you can predict the future. Do not try to feed people information you do not have.
PR08 Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 Well if you don't want to hear positive words of advice from a well-meaning person, don't go gagging for attention on an online forum. 2
tinker683 Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 You do not know me or my situation. Saying I will find love again is no different than telling us you can predict the future. Do not try to feed people information you do not have. Oh please, Grumpy Gus, I've been where you are, I've done the whole wallowing thing, and I've got the frelling t-shirt. There are millions of women out there and right now you're raw from the break up. I was in the exact same position you are in twice now. Both times I didn't think any woman could make me feel the way I did and both times I was devastated by break up and thought I'd never get over it. My ex crushed me. She strung me along for months before our breakup and quickly jumped another guy once we did. It smashed me into a million pieces. That was 9 months ago and I'm doing just fine now. I still miss her from time to time but I always remember that it isn't her I miss, it's the feeling I had when I was with her...and that's a feeling I can find with someone else, someone worthy of it. So...do what you gotta do. If you want to tell yourself that you're unlovable, that is entirely your right but it is also a fiction that doesn't reflect reality. It is entirely your choice 2
JoelBarish Posted September 18, 2013 Posted September 18, 2013 Mr Turk I think they were just giving you some tough love. You have to remember we are all dealing with losses. None of us knew your girl but we all know your pain - that wonderful feeling of being adored one minute and then the next thing you know having your heart ripped out and stomped on. It hurts like hell. It's easy to believe that you can never have such an amazing connection with someone else. But you gotta have hope. Just remember those feelings you had came from within you and they can come from within again with someone else eventually. 1
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