johndoes Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 (edited) I haven't talked or seen my ex for three months until last weekend. Long story short we ended up hooking up. Bad idea I know but it happened. All it did was bring up everything and made me realize I still wasn't over it. I texted on Sunday saying we need to meet up and talk. Her response was lol oh do you. I responded back asking why she was laughing. She cause that's my favorite thing to do. I told her I was being serious. She said oh OK I'm sorry I'm not laughing. Anyways we meet up and I told her that its gotta go back to nc cause I'm not over us and still have feelings. that what happened shouldn't of. She told me sorry I feel that way but she had a lot of fun. I told her a lot and she just acted really cold and a couple time she even tried to be funny. Also she tried to talk to me about work and things. She kept making excuses up for y she is unfit for a relationship but I know for sure she would date her ex before me he just doesn't want it. Anywsys during all of this she kept asking why we couldn't stay friends right now. I don't know y it would matter because she told me before that she can never remain friends with an ex so why is it so important to remain friends with me. Y be so persistent about it. Edited September 17, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
melell Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 To me this sounds like she is missing having you around to stroke her ego. Cut her out, she needs to know the reality of her situation. Honestly, don't waste anymore energy than you need to on someone like this. I promise you there are other girls out there that would love you unconditionally and treat you with respect.
barky2 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Its obvious....she wants the D and not the R. R = relationship D= well you can figure it out. Nc. Barky 1
lauri Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 My ex pushed so hard to keep me as a friend but I continued to ignore her until the point I deleted her from facebook. I couldn't handle the fact she was moving on so fast (b/c she checked out months ago). She just wanted to keep me in her life because I believe she felt guilty and wanted to stroke her ego and feel like she can always have me if she wanted me. Well, by me cutting her out it shocked her big time and she hasn't talked to me since. I hope what I did was for the best for myself because I have been having a hard time adjusting to not having her in my life and communicating with her on a regular basis.
hotpotato Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Hmm...Let's see... She may want you to be her cushion. She could very well be on the hunt for someone else, but she wants you around just in case. If she really wanted you, she wouldn't have dumped you. She rejected you, didnt want you. Give her what she really asked for and go NC. 1
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