David_Marsh Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Hi all, I've been on two dates with someone I met online and confused as to how to proceed. I'm attratced to her physically and to her strong personality. However, we are two very different characters and my experience from dating previous girls of a similiar character is that this will not work long term. I'm attracted to her but don't feel as comfortable around her as I should. She's gone a bit quiet on me since our second date. It could be she has lost interest but I think it's because she may be confused as I didnt make a move on her or hold her hand while we where walking. The last couple of hours of the date went very well and seemed the right time to make a move - if only I did not have serious long term doubts here. I just want us to hang out a few times before sending signals by being physically. Providing she is still interested, I'm not sure if I should push for a few more dates and see if things change or should I back off now and maybe just offer a friendship? David
Philosoraptor Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 If you're interested then do something about it. Just because similar situations went down a bad path doesn't mean this girl, a totally different individual from the people you've dated before, will go down the same path. Can't hold the wrongs of another against someone else. If you're interested then make a move.
Author David_Marsh Posted September 16, 2013 Author Posted September 16, 2013 Thanks. I'm interested in continue to getting to know her better but don't feel right making a move yet. I know girls usually lose interest if a guy doesnt make a move on the 2nd/3rd date which is what I think is happening here.
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