johndoes Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Here we go. Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago cause we argued and things weren't right. Haven't talked to her since, deleted her from fb and my phone. Well this weekend was an emotional rollercoaster cause I seen her for the first time. Friday night my best friend/roommate went out with her cause they've been best friends since kids. Well she texted me saying I should come out but I never responded. I ended up telling my friend that if he needed a ride let me know. He did and sure enough I had to give her a ride home too cause she was too drunk to drive. Didn't really say much to her and dropped her off. Well she texted me a short time after saying i should of came in and then she wished I would of stayed. I texted her back saying I couldn't do that. She said she was sorry and good night. Next day she texted saying sorry for last night and then we started talking about how we've been and what we've been up to. She again invitede out that night but I already had plans. Sure enough though we ended up running into each other both been drinking and I ended up going home with her and hooking up. That night I know we talked about everything but I don't really remember everything. So last night I went to her place so I could tell her that I couldn't do it anymore... that its gotta go back to nc. Told her I don't regret what happened but that it shouldn't of. She said she hates that I feel this way cause she had a lot of fun. But she told me she can't be in a relationship but I know she was lying cause she would get back with her ex if he wanted to. I know they've been talking but he has been back and forth on meeting her cause he was hurt by her to. The whole time I was talking I felt like she didn't care...she tried changing the subject and trying to crack jokes about the situation. I guess I'm looking for someone to tell me the cold hard truth about this. Just needing help on what I should do.
lindsay1990 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Superficially, if you *know* she would get back with her ex she would appear to just be getting some surrogate ego-boosting from you. You went there, had your fun, and fromthis post you don't sound particularly distraught over her feelings. You said yourself she seems to not really care anymore, but, but, if you continue hooking up with her and specially engaging in the relationship talk and the drama, it will be YOU who ends up caring again and will end up burned.
Author johndoes Posted September 16, 2013 Author Posted September 16, 2013 Im not 100% on if she would but it seems like that. She told me she can't be friends with her exs but wants to be with me and I'm sure its cause she doesn't have the same feelings for me as she does for them. I just know what all was said about me and him cause my roommate told me and her feelings are indifferent for both of us. She just couldn't understand why we couldn't be friends right now even after I told her everything
Balzac Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 She never has to understand. She's a mess for many reasons. How much do you enjoy her drama? You're in it even after you called this over. How's that working for 'ya????
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