confusedlassy Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 I've been dating this guy for 2 weeks. A couple of months ago he broke up with his wife (it had been stale a long time however he stayed for the kids) she has basically been texting some other man and when he found out he told her to stop and she wasn't willing too. We get along fabulously it's like we are the same person. We had a date on Friday and we slept together for the first time. Little too soon but it's done now. We then went out again last night. He got drunk last week and called me his fake girlfriend and we've been joking about it since. However today we got talking about it and he still says "I want to go with the flow but I REALLY like you" I was feeling fabulous about meeting him, feeling butterflies ect - Now I just feel like I'm being led on. Anyone shed some light? Thanks
MidwestUSA Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 He "broke up" with his wife? Meaning, he's still married. Unless one can get a divorce that quickly, and I don't know anywhere that's possible. You've been "dating" two weeks, and had sex. Your brain is full of lust chemicals. You are the other woman. If you can be happy with that title, then by all means, proceed. Yes, you're being led on, and used. Who wants a guy who gets stinking drunk and makes stupid proclamations? Don't you want more than that from a relationship? A "fake" girlfriend indeed; he's letting you know exactly where your place is. For your own sanity, back away and let him figure out his mess of a life. For all you know, he's still telling his wife all the feel good things and planning another baby! Don't fall for this line of BS. PS: he fed you a standard line. Stale marriage, in it only for the kids, she was doing something he couldn't tolerate. 2
Ninjainpajamas Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 You're just a side thing...get a clue.
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 You're just a side thing...get a clue. You are SO mean
Sunshine87 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 What do you mean by he "broke up" with his wife?
TigerCub Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 OP, I'm sorry. The truth is, there's a 99.9% chance that this guy is a pro. He's not broken up with his wife. He's just another guy that makes up a sob story of how his wife is terrible and that he's leaving, but really can't because he's gonna stay for the kids, and blah blah. If you let him, he'll take you for one hell of a rollercoaster ride and will break your heart in the process. You will become the Other Woman, and a part of you will hate yourself for that, then you'll be in too deep and it will be hard to get out, and you'll waste years of your life hanging on to some guy that's just a liar and cheater. If you really like him and if his story is true - tell him that you'll get together with him when he gets a divorce. Don't settle for any less. what's the age difference between you and this guy?
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