loveiswar101 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Hi, this has been on my mine. U break up and both parties independently without other knowing decide to do NC. We believe both parties love each other. Who breaks the NC. As in theory neither would...NC is NC. You may never speak again and fail to reconnect a partnership that was destined to happen...
todreaminblue Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Hi, this has been on my mine. U break up and both parties independently without other knowing decide to do NC. We believe both parties love each other. Who breaks the NC. As in theory neither would...NC is NC. You may never speak again and fail to reconnect a partnership that was destined to happen... sad situation........if both parties have done it and fail to want to break the no contact.....it wont happen you are right...but......if it is destined to happen......wouldnt it happen regardless.....divine intervention.......god would soften the heart that needed to be softened...maybe......it is sad though...lost love....deb
Author loveiswar101 Posted September 16, 2013 Author Posted September 16, 2013 Mmm. I understand, but I was a rash, greedy and foolish when I broke up with my girl. Nearly 2 weeks miss her like crazy, I know she feels the same. Now I'm NC she NC. Who breaks (not now but down track)...surely me for being the fool in the first place... 1
todreaminblue Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Mmm. I understand, but I was a rash, greedy and foolish when I broke up with my girl. Nearly 2 weeks miss her like crazy, I know she feels the same. Now I'm NC she NC. Who breaks (not now but down track)...surely me for being the fool in the first place... if you were the fool who started the whole thing,rash greedy foolish, then yes i think it should be you,if you know she is feeling the same way dont leave it too long... no contact is to get over someone, it isnt a tool to get someone back...it is to get over them..that's why if no one breaks the no contact its over and you move on......i really wish you well and hope it works out.....deb 1
RiceaRoni Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 If you know you made a mistake and want to reconcile then usually the person who broke it off breaks NC. Just my opinion. 2
Author loveiswar101 Posted September 16, 2013 Author Posted September 16, 2013 Thanks guys, I was a fool, most of all rash and selfish. I love this girl and before this we were very happy. I do not want to lose her, if I hear nothing by Thurs I'm asking her out for dinner on the weekend. Phone or text ??? She always said she prefers phone calls than texts in past when communicating, phone call a lot more personal I think. 1
JoelBarish Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 I agree, if you did the breaking, it's on you to make contact. If you want her, you have to let her know. She's sitting there thinking that you don't want her. 1
Author loveiswar101 Posted September 16, 2013 Author Posted September 16, 2013 Thanks, her boy get back from overseas trip today and she's missing him. So going to let them have day together, text tonight saying hope he got back ok and hope they had good day. Then Thursday phone and ask her for a dinner date weekend. And yes I WANT HER BACK.
Cali408 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Don't ever text to ask a woman out on a date. Good luck. 1
Babolat Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Thanks, her boy get back from overseas trip today and she's missing him. So going to let them have day together, text tonight saying hope he got back ok and hope they had good day. Then Thursday phone and ask her for a dinner date weekend. And yes I WANT HER BACK. A little too much in my opinion. Let her spend time with her boy NOT thinking about you or the relationship. Give her that space. And agreed to the text. Maybe a "I need to talk to you" text in a few days.... 1
Author loveiswar101 Posted September 17, 2013 Author Posted September 17, 2013 Mmm. Well did text yesterday evening, just saying hoping her boy got back safe and they had good day together. Later got a text back saying it was emotional she's happy to have home home, and also work want her to go full time. She has a bad back at moment and just said would full time work be appropriate for the condition she in and the future.(I care for this woman - not in text) Now this is the strange one... She say she don't think she will or wants to do full time. At moment living day to day and sometimes wish days were different. Looking after herself, trying to drop weight. Think of you. I replied that glad she was looking after herself and if wanted a quick 5 min chat on phone regarding her boy getting back, work, nothing heavy i here. She came back with, "she's to tied" I replied no panic, ill let you sleep. Ok I might be reading to much into this but first time she has said/quoted I think you. Well Thursday I'm going to phone and say Ive booked a table for Saturday night and I will pick her up, we can eat chat and I'll drop her home. Been a couple of weeks now, I have relised what I need to do for me and I want her back and part of my life and hoping she wants me back in hers. Can't just keep drifting along text text etc.
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