secret admirer Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 We've been together since high school (around 3 years), and this is our first year in college. She left to the other side of the country to go to her school, and we thought we could handle being together still, so we decided to have a long distance relationship. Now I loved her and she loved me. We never, EVER got into arguments and we never had issues. But this would change that. She said that she met this guy in college and she claims she told him she has a boyfriend (me) and values that, but she then tells me she eats dinner with him and studies with him too. Before she left to college, she told me we could go out with other people, but we could not kiss or go anywhere beyond that. So far, I haven't even gone out with anyone, nor talked to a girl. I find myself too faithful and too afraid to hurt her. Now today she told me bad news. She told me she wanted to be honest, and she said she got kissed by this boy she hangs out with. She says she's sorry and she feels bad for what happened. she told him that she has a "boyfriend who she loves very much." Apparently she still hangs out with him...This was all said through text. Its been only one month and she already got kissed by a guy. Is she just wanting me to break up with her? She also said if she wanted to break up, she would call me, but we still call each other, and she still seems to love me. What should I do? Should I discuss this with my girlfriends parents? WHATS GOING ON?
hurts2death Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 what is going on? you are faith and correct and messed with a girl unhonest and immature with lost faith.. dump her now... and go nc.....
Misfortune Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Discuss what with her parents exactly? What do you think eventually happens when you go on dates and spend enough time with someone? I would break up with her. It's best to single in college if you're not at the same schools. 1
Chi townD Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Point is, she allowed it to happen. When the dude was moving in for the kiss, she could have said no, but she didn't. 1
melell Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 While with my ex I ran into a guy I had been obsessed with/in love with since I was 15, the guy was perfect, looked like a model, the nicest person, always had girls chasing him. I was a little drunk, he tried to kiss me, tried really hard, I wouldn't let him-because even though that guy was everything I wanted I loved my boyfriend (we had been together 4 years at that point). I was out alone that night because my then boyfriend had been arrested and lost it. I had every reason to do it, but still couldn't. My point is, if someone is sure about you they won't kiss another guy, or want to hang out with someone who tries to kiss them. I feel like this is potentially emotional suicide if you don't walk away now..
barky2 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Hate to be harsh but I want your eyes open. Do you think he just happened to trip and fall on her lips? You don't see it, but re read your story The guy is interested in her, she's interested in him. Studying dinner and now a kiss? What do you think is next bro? Unfortunately, you guys are away from each other and this won't last. I highly suggest you delete her from everything and spare your heart the hurt. Maybe after college you'll reconnect but not going to happen now. Go be free and enjoy college like you should. Barky 2
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