alexjames Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 I've been seeing this girl for 3 weeks (I'm 21, she's 18, is that a too big of a gap?) after a work mate of mine set me up with her. She has really strict parents and it's really hard to ever see her as her mum doesn't let her out much and she can only go out for an hour here and there. She had had a few boyfriends in the past but nothing serious or anything. I really like her though. Yesterday I asked her out and she said yes. We will take things really slowly, and only really see each other once/twice a week at most. When I text her she answers the things I ask her, but she doesn't ever ask me things or start the conversations first. She has told me she likes me and always kisses me when we go out but I don't think she really understand what a relationship is about, she just says that she want to see me every now and again, when she is allowed too etc. How can it work out when we aren't allowed to go out much and can't even go round each others for a cup of tea, let alone anything else! I haven't met her family but really want too. I really like her but am worried already!
Philosoraptor Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Stop overthinking things. The only question that matters is if you like her enough to be patient with her still living at home. If so, she's throwing you many good signs. She's young and you'll have to be patient with her. Either be patient or find someone who is a little more experienced. 1
Author alexjames Posted September 16, 2013 Author Posted September 16, 2013 It's not the fact that she lives at home still (I do, and will for many years I'd imagine!) and yes, I really like her, but she is so inexperienced and her mum has her wrapped in cotton wool (not literally obvious;y!) all her life so she has no real experience of the world, so I don't know how this will go, but I really want it to work as I really like her!
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