Sideshow82 Posted November 21, 2004 Posted November 21, 2004 My GF of 4 years left me about 2 months ago. She said that she didn't love me anymore and that she has felt like she's been half a person, or my GF for the past 4 years. not her own person. she said that she has felt like that for awhile I guess. The night we broke up, I was in really rough shape, she wanted me to leave but i was in no condition to go anywhere at the time. She left and went over to this guys place "a friend from work" and has been seeing him since we broke up. We were each others first loves and I'm absolutely heart-broken. Not just by the fact that she broke up with me, but that she started seeing this guy right after. we still talk every so often and she brings him up in our conversations and it drives me crazy. I still love her so much, but I know that now that she's with this guy, we can never get back together, and just that thought alone makes me feel totally helpless, and it hurts so much. I know I should move on and try and forget her, but she's in the back of my mind all the time............I just hope that I get over this soon.
Merin Posted November 21, 2004 Posted November 21, 2004 Ugh! I'm so sorry you're going through this... IMO she was seeing this other guy before she broke up with you... You know because it makes you feel so badly to speak with her, you may want to consider NC until there comes a time when you're not feeling so bad about things and you've gotten past this.. Tiempo.. Time is an amazing healer.. Best Wishes
head/heels Posted November 22, 2004 Posted November 22, 2004 THERE IS NO REASON TO TALK TO HER AT ALLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER SPEAK TO HER AGAIN!! GET A SPINE HOW CAN YOU LISTEN TO WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY ABOUT HIM?
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