Author cushing68 Posted December 7, 2004 Author Posted December 7, 2004 Well, looks like we are done for real but, I'm still not sure why. I need closure to move on. I want to ask her but at the same time, I don't want to give her anymore "power". Advice?
theone44 Posted December 7, 2004 Posted December 7, 2004 Originally posted by cushing68 Well, looks like we are done for real but, I'm still not sure why. I need closure to move on. I want to ask her but at the same time, I don't want to give her anymore "power". Advice? That great cushing68. just do the silent thing with no contact thing. This really kill women sometime. It been 6 month for and my ex i haven't talk to her since,no contact or anything,and i'm feeling sooo good. Keep up the good work with no contact,sooner or later when you have move on with your life that when they start coming around again.....
Author cushing68 Posted December 7, 2004 Author Posted December 7, 2004 Originally posted by theone44 That great cushing68. just do the silent thing with no contact thing. This really kill women sometime. It been 6 month for and my ex i haven't talk to her since,no contact or anything,and i'm feeling sooo good. Keep up the good work with no contact,sooner or later when you have move on with your life that when they start coming around again..... Well see, I DID call her yesterday (mainly to talk about my furniture that I'm getting back soon) But, I did'nt mention our relationship or anything. She asked how my band was doing but other than that she was pretty steril. I DID wuss out at the end of the conversation and say, "miss ya kid". So, you see, I have to contact her again (when I go get my furniture from her place.) Thoughts?
theone44 Posted December 7, 2004 Posted December 7, 2004 Originally posted by cushing68 Well see, I DID call her yesterday (mainly to talk about my furniture that I'm getting back soon) But, I did'nt mention our relationship or anything. She asked how my band was doing but other than that she was pretty steril. I DID wuss out at the end of the conversation and say, "miss ya kid". So, you see, I have to contact her again (when I go get my furniture from her place.) Thoughts? This is just my opinion about my situation,if it was my furniture i would let my ex keep it,because it would be the manly thing to do. Yeah u did wuss out a little. never tell a woman when she break up with you"I miss you". let it come from her first. I did a lot fo my ex,and never ask for things back. When you don't ask for things back. from you did for your girlfriend they will respect you for it . Maybe down the line after a few months or years,after my feeling is gone from my ex then maybe we be good friend,but it's her call now.
Author cushing68 Posted December 8, 2004 Author Posted December 8, 2004 Yeah, but it's $2700 furniture! lol
Author cushing68 Posted December 8, 2004 Author Posted December 8, 2004 ...and I'm thinking of writing a letter to get things off my chest. Advice?
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