sickpuppy Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Just seeing the forums opinions (not saying I would actually do this but..) How do you feel about or would you lay everything out being completely honest to a person who you feel is playing a game with you/ mentally/emotionally manipulating you or has treated you poorly and then leaving the situation for good/ not returning at all/no contact? Would you do that and why or perfer to simply just let it go without speaking your peace then leaving and not returning at all/going no contact?
todreaminblue Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Just seeing the forums opinions (not saying I would actually do this but..) How do you feel about or would you lay everything out being completely honest to a person who you feel is playing a game with you/ mentally/emotionally manipulating you or has treated you poorly and then leaving the situation for good/ not returning at all/no contact? Would you do that and why or perfer to simply just let it go without speaking your peace then leaving and not returning at all/going no contact? if you have to ask someone if they are playing a game then the answer would be what game......if you play someone you will most likely not admit to it......and continue playing that game, because they have no choice once confronted but to continue i feel if you can honestly admit to playing a game with someone and say hey cant do it any more.....that si a sign the game is no longer in play and shows a certain amount of respect for the person who isnt aware of the game,to give it up...humility in honesty as well...thats my opinion i feel playing games is fruitless....its always going to be a case though that people think they benefit..they dont...until they stop playing.otherwise it is just an endless game...boring..deb
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 I much prefer to speak my piece, have my suspicions confirmed and move on from there.
Leigh 87 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 I wouldn't bother. They don't really care what you have to say. When they wonder why I have stopped talking to them as much, I would be honest and say " oh, yeah, I did not think we were a good fit. Good luck to you" I would not outright tell them anything. Only if they asked me why after I stopped contacting them or returning their calls/texts.
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