Grumpylilmoose Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 So things have actually improved a great deal, we went from seeing one another every few days, to almost every day. We have made a lot of progress, but it seems to be at a standstill again though she does seem to be more vocal about missing me, at night when we are not together.(My insecurities do get the better, of me feeling like I'm there when she has nothing else?)BUT we do see one another a lot, when she could be doing something else. There has been two times she's lost her phone, once was last night, I got a sorry if you tried texting me, I lost my phone... Again my insecurities kick in, and find it strange, but she does usually respond.. How should I handle my insecurities? Would it be better to not respond to her, at times? Act like I am busy? Any other advice?
loveiswar101 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Hi, Im trying to fix my issues with my girl. I too had/have the same insecurities. So how should I handle my insecurities? Well i've decided if I can or do get her back my insecurities are going out the window. when we were together, like you and your girl, I would say you have feelings going both ways. That's it. Trust and devotion. I'm going all in if we get back together and maybe same for you. Let my heart control me a bit instead of my brain and negative thoughts. I wait for my phone to ring or beep, but now not so much, if she wants to get hold of me so be it and same should go for you. She could be busy etc. Seems like your looking for direction, for once do what your heart wants and not what you think. If goes belly up it does but you gave it all. Every time you think why has she phoned etc PINCH YOURSELF AND TAKE A STEP BACK. Wait 5 mins and then decide best action. Just thoughts.
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