ConfusedT Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 So if any of you remember me, im the one who had not one BUT TWO narcissitic ex boyfriends who i dated, one right after the other & eventually set one up an caught him cheating. Anywho, i had stopped talking to the recent ex for quite some time and eventually he apologized, blah blah blah, lets be friends bs. So i agreed and it was fine up until about two weeks ago. We were in the car and he got mad cause i grabbed the wrong shirt for him and he told me that im worthless, i said excuse me? He said, ill used to respect because i thought you had some value, but youre so useless that youre worthless and dont deserve respect!! Prior to our long break, id probably be on here crying making excuses for his behavior, but you'd be proud to know - i kicked his ass out my car and left him at a gas station and told him im too worthless to take you home. Morale of the story: exs are exs for a reason, unless theyre good people and the breakup is kinda mutual and easy, dont try to be friends - they tend to revert back to who they always were. Im not sad or anything, i jus thought it showed how far i came to even to something like that after how broken i was before!! Thanks guys and i hope all is well!!
abby_tx Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 So if any of you remember me, im the one who had not one BUT TWO narcissitic ex boyfriends who i dated, one right after the other & eventually set one up an caught him cheating. Anywho, i had stopped talking to the recent ex for quite some time and eventually he apologized, blah blah blah, lets be friends bs. So i agreed and it was fine up until about two weeks ago. We were in the car and he got mad cause i grabbed the wrong shirt for him and he told me that im worthless, i said excuse me? He said, ill used to respect because i thought you had some value, but youre so useless that youre worthless and dont deserve respect!! Prior to our long break, id probably be on here crying making excuses for his behavior, but you'd be proud to know - i kicked his ass out my car and left him at a gas station and told him im too worthless to take you home. Morale of the story: exs are exs for a reason, unless theyre good people and the breakup is kinda mutual and easy, dont try to be friends - they tend to revert back to who they always were. Im not sad or anything, i jus thought it showed how far i came to even to something like that after how broken i was before!! Thanks guys and i hope all is well!! Good job! You should never have to take that and I'm glad you didn't! Hopefully both relatoinships will help you to recognize a narcissist quicker and you can find a GOOD guy.
cif Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Your title made me lol... good for you throwing him out! It's amazing how after time apart we see these jerks for what they really are.
wavejumper Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 BRAVA! never let anyone talk to you that way! you have taken a major next step in drawing healthy boundaries for yourself. (consider blocking him because no doubt he will get in touch and try and guilt you)
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