holly25 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 I lost him because of distance. Sure, we did argue. But I really believe it was the distance. When I'm in his city, should I send a hello text to let him know I'm there? Or not?
PCS991 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 I'm experiencing the same thing right now more or less...I'm on east coast and she's in SFO... Sucks
CherryT Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 How long did you date? It depends on what you want. Do you want to reconcile or are you OK with being friends? There's a chance that he wouldn't want to see you and you have to be OK with that.
justwhoiam Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Your post has so many holes, it's like Gruyère. I lost him because of distance. How far? Did he dump you? Sure, we did argue. How often? About what? But I really believe it was the distance. We'd love to give you our unbiased perspectives, but with no information, it's impossible. When I'm in his city That is when? Is that a hypotetical question, or are you going to be there, like you have a trip planned? should I send a hello text to let him know I'm there? Or not? Why would you treat your being there any different than usual? I assume you're not in touch with this guy anymore. When did you/he break up?
Author holly25 Posted September 16, 2013 Author Posted September 16, 2013 Your post has so many holes, it's like Gruyère. How far? Did he dump you? How often? About what? We'd love to give you our unbiased perspectives, but with no information, it's impossible. That is when? Is that a hypotetical question, or are you going to be there, like you have a trip planned? Why would you treat your being there any different than usual? I assume you're not in touch with this guy anymore. When did you/he break up? We're 2,000 miles apart. He dumped me because he was tired of waiting after 9 months of communicating after we met on plenty of fish. We argued a lot because he was so pushy about me coming. I ended up canceling a date but I had so much going on. I had two surgeries this summer. I'm going out there in January, Feb, and March for business. Should I contact? The area of LA I'll be in I'll only be 10 minutes away from him.
PCS991 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 We're 2,000 miles apart. He dumped me because he was tired of waiting after 9 months of communicating after we met on plenty of fish. We argued a lot because he was so pushy about me coming. I ended up canceling a date but I had so much going on. I had two surgeries this summer. I'm going out there in January, Feb, and March for business. Should I contact? The area of LA I'll be in I'll only be 10 minutes away from him. Holly, If you like him and hope that things work out in the end ABSOLUTELY contact him. I'd hope my girlfriend would do the same. 1
justwhoiam Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Should I contact? I wouldn't. Maybe you can make it known out there, like facebook, twitter or something like that. Maybe he's going to read it.
Solcita2 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 How long were you an item? It was an online relationship? When did you break up? NC since the break up?
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