TranslucentThoughts Posted November 21, 2004 Posted November 21, 2004 Me and my ex have been broken up for about 2 months now.. but it's still really hard for me to let go. I'm still in love with him but he doesn't feel the same way. That's why he broke up with me. We really haven't talked much since the breakup... we go to the same school and that makes things even harder for me... We have a class together and sit right beside eachother... and we don't usually talk. I decided about 2 weeks ago that I was going to try doing NC at all. I didn't even look at him in the halls or in class. But... it didn't really work... in class now... it's like he tries to be friendly... where as before, he never did. I absolutely hate this... I wanted him to just ignore me... because for awhile that's what he was doing... and then, when i decide to ignore him completely... he tries to make a bit of an effort to be friendly... and just stupid attempts. Like in class.... he showed me this new pen he had... and was asking me if I thought it was nice. Like, out of the blue though... this is what he talks about. Guh... I don't know. I miss him so much... and I try to ignore his presence... but it's as if it's all I can think about. How do I get him out of my head? I've been keeping pretty busy lately...but at school it's worst... when I have to see him... it hurts so much. Any advice? I could use some... any at all...
Merin Posted November 21, 2004 Posted November 21, 2004 Break ups are always rough, but more so when you still have to see the other person... All you can do is continue to avoid him when you can.. and when he tries to speak with you remain "friendly" but UNINTERESTED. Eventually he will get the message. Good Luck
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