Thereyesnetwork Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 I'm in a little dilemma here. The first girl I met is pretty tom-boyish. She plays games, sleeps around the house like many guys would. When I talk to her, we share some great laughs and we're very relatable. We talk online on the weekends to sometimes and we go at it for hours, with her I feel really comfortable talking to her. The second girl is the more intelligent and shyer of the three. I could pick her brain for hours. Whenever I pass by her in the halls, we quickly greet then go back to our business, I like how she says my name to! She's very genuine, happy most of the time. The third girl is the more gregarious and outgoing. At first I saw her as those girls who only seek attention (she could still be, but want your opinion). But because we live so close to each other, we insisted on hanging out/walking home after school, and she opened up to me like no other. She didn't have the past anyone really wanted, and that's why she wanted reassurance from the guys she hangs with. She said "I'm nice" and "I'm her favorite" but she wasn't really specific, though it didn't really sound platonic either. Despite that she's really friendly most of the time, the next day she goes cold turkey on me and rather be with her other friends. So... Now I'm pretty unsure who to pick out of the three. They all give me that warm fuzzy feeling when I see them. Thoughts anyone?
Purepony Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 Pick one for what? You make it seem like their fighting for you and waiting to be asked to be your girlfriend but it doesnt sound like youve even been on a date with any of them
madjac74 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 I have the same dilemma. I can't decide which of the Dallas Cowboys cheerleaders to choose! They all give me a warm fuzzy feeling when I see them. I am quite certain they are all waiting with anticipation for me to make my decision. All sarcasm aside, what makes you think you have to choose? Why not just be friends with all of them? It doesn't seem like you actually have any romantic ties to any of them other than they all give you a warm fuzzy feeling.
Roadkill007 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 hmmm three friends, or one possible gf that might end in a bad breakup.... hmm...
RiceaRoni Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 Well when it comes down to the point where you're seeing yourself having to "choose" it's probably best to stay friends with them. at least until you actually KNOW which one of these girls you're interested in (if you end up interested in one) Fuzzy feelings don't always automatically assume you need to have a relationship with one of them. Just go with the flow for now.
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