sarahA Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 There's this guy from my college that's super hot and always looks at me but his a bad boy . he smokes and drinks . All the girls in my college talk about him. He approached me a couple of days ago and was really nice and had a nice personality . we didn't talk for long because i had a lesson to go to . i see him everywhere in college . i feel like his following me aha. Even his friends know about me. i'm not sure if i should if give him a chance. i know i shouldn't judge him without knowing him well enough but i feel like his going to break my heart. i always see him flirting with other girls . should i give him i chance or not ?? . And if not , how can i let him down without being rude .
CherryT Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 You don't even know if he's willing to give you a chance. He approached you and asked you to hang out. After the first hangout, you may both feel you're not compatible and leave it as that. To keep your heart from breaking (not just with this guy, but with others) don't expect that you'll be going down that road, before you actually explore. You're setting yourself up for expectations and disappointment. Why not get to know him, see for yourself if he's really a "bad boy". If he's not what you're looking for in a BF, stay friends. But don't assume he's ready to be your BF until you get to know him a little more. 1
MrTurk Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 You don't even know if he's willing to give you a chance. He approached you and asked you to hang out. After the first hangout, you may both feel you're not compatible and leave it as that. You are delusional if you think the word "compatible" is even in the mind of most men, when it comes to women.
CherryT Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 You are delusional if you think the word "compatible" is even in the mind of most men, when it comes to women. You are delusional to think that actions don't show the meaning of "compatibility". Men may not use the word (though I know many men who are looking for a serious relationship and use the word often) but after spending some time with an interest, you can generally get an idea whether or not it's worth exploring or if it's just not a match. OP, what I meant by compatible is when you get to know him, you can figure out whether or not he wants a relationship or if he's just looking for fun. If you're looking for a something different than what he's willing to give, you're not a match (or compatible).
TheGuard13 Posted September 16, 2013 Posted September 16, 2013 Smoking and drinking makes someone a "bad boy"?
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