kat1012 Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 It has been one and a half month since my bf broke up with me. We started talking again after one month of no contact, which was around two weeks ago. I was the one who broke it because i want to get my stuff back from him. I expected him to just ask me to go to his place to get it or simply just left it outside his door for me pick them up. I wasn't expecting him to also ask me to get a coffee/drink together. And I also didn't expect him to be "excited" and "happy" to see me when we first met again after the break-up. I am sure we both had a good time getting a drink and catching up with each other's life. Along the conversation, he brought up the places we've been to when we were dating. He even said my teeth were whiter (that's so weird), and noticed I changed my phone wallpaper when I didn't show it in his face. And at the end of that night, he gave me a big hug and said we should catch up again sometime and it was good to see me. He commented on my FB once. And I ran into him a few days later when I was hanging out with my friend at a bar. I was the one who saw him and so I said hi and he seemed pretty excited when he saw me and got up and hugged me, and asked if I wanted to join him. I said me and my friend need to go and buy a drink first. While getting the drinks, two guys talked to us and so we ended up talking to those two guys for a while. My friend said he was looking at my direction the whole time. After like ten minutes, we decided to walk back to my ex, he's like "so you ready to join the table?" We chatted just a bit, and he turned to his friend who approached him. and my friend (who really hates him) immediately dragged me away and I didnt even say goodbye to him. An hour later, he texted me "you disappeared". I explained saying "my friend wanted to leave so I literally got dragged away, and I did yell goodbye lol. sorry, didn't mean to be rude." he replied right away "haha enjoy your night". The next morning, I texted him asking where he went afterwards, and he asked me back how I was. We haven't really talked to each other since then. He just liked a comment I dropped at his FB status. And on thursday, I asked him for some advice on matters that I know he's the one that know the most. He's quite enthusiastic when replying. I also asked him a bit on how he was doing, which I would say his reply are just some simple ans with just a few words. And we haven't contacted each other since then. I think I still have some feelings for him (I dreamt of him last night :/), but right now I am not sure if I want us to date again. I think I hope we can still get drinks together once a while and catch up with each other, like what happened that night. I don't want to cut each other out of our lives. And I don't know if he still has feelings for me, even though he was the one who broke up with me. If he does, did what happen that night when I ran into at the bar sorta turn him off (I basically talked to other guys in front of him, though there were no flirting or any touching, and then I disappeared (thanks to my friend) after he invited me to join him) And Is it a good idea if I contact him again and ask if he wants to grab a drink and catch up, possibly by the end of the month?
Ireallydontknow Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 Proceed with caution. I also don't know the full story of the break up and the time line. Who knows? If you don't mind the possibility of being burnt twice, go for it.
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