favorites216 Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 17. The last time we had sex the condom broke. We freaked and when she asked what we're going to do, I said we'll just get an abortion. Her initial reaction was just ,"Okay." The next day we talk about it. She knows I had an abortion with an ex and she told me she looked at me differently now. I asked how so and she says she didn't think I was ," like that." When I asked like what, she says it seems like I don't care about the girl and them getting an abortion. She also feels like we're killing a child and , although I feel the same way, I know we're too young to raise a child. I told her this and she agreed that abortion was the only way but she basically thinks I'm an ******* for how I responded to the situation. She also told me she was debating whether or not to break up with me that night. I obviously felt terrible about this and asked if she still wanted to be with me and if this is something she could get over. She said yes, she wants to be with me, but she doesn't know if she can get over it and to give it time. I respect that but I can't help but feel like things are going to change. To be honest, I resent her a little for judging me so quickly. I am NOT an *******, I swear. I just felt like abortion was going to be the end result anyway so why am I being judged for bringing it up? I don't know how I feel about our relationship now. Please tell me if I'm being a douche. Any advice or insight would be much appreciated.
Dionne2013 Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 it should be something you both agree on otherwise you will regret this for the rest of your life and im not joking you should both sit down and talk about it dont rush in to anything straight away hope this helps
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