Dionne2013 Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 (edited) I have been with my partner 3 and half years everything was fine then I found out that about 6 months into our relationship he was masterbating over other girls which was my best riend on facebook he told me it would not happen again so I left it at that I already knew when we first got together that he watched porn I even watched it with him a few timesbut I just could not seem to get over the fact that he did things over my friends and he had pictures of me so then I didt like him watching porn so he said that he would much rather do it over pictures of me or just wait intill we seen each other I found out then he was lien because he was still doing it over my friends I was always a confident person before all this happened and ive tried to change my whole appearence to look like what he wants so it got to the point it was pointless so I left him we gor back together a month later and he was still doing it I ended up falling pregnant after a 2 years of us being together and he was promising he was going to change I belived him and then I found out he was doing it over music channels aswell I feel like rubbish everytime we go out he is always looking at other girls and now I just feel like I am stayin with him for this baby to have 2 parents in her life please give me some suggestioms on what I should do thank u Edited September 15, 2013 by Dionne2013
juicygirl Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 I'm a bit confused, why would he tell you that is doing it over your friends? That's a bit disrespectful in my eyes because unless he told you you wouldn't have known. Some things are better left unsaid. To me masturbation isn't a big deal but I would be concerned if he was doing it over my friends because that's just the first step before he tries to actually sleep with them. It really depends on you. If you've told him how it makes you feel, the fact it's making me feel insecure and making you want to change your appearance for him and he still doing it openly in front of you and is not even trying to change a little it's not a good sign. It comes down to what you're willing to accept and put up with really.
Author Dionne2013 Posted September 15, 2013 Author Posted September 15, 2013 thanks for your reply he never just said that im doing things over your friends I seen it on his history and I asked him why he kept lookin at the pictures and he said then every time after that I just caught him at it
FierceFoxie Posted September 15, 2013 Posted September 15, 2013 Get out now! I am willing to bet he is a sex addict. My ex husband was/is and this is how it starts off, masturbating incessantly but then it no longer satisfies that high they get so they take it a step further and eventually it will turn into cheating on you whether with someone else or with a prostitute. Your man has issues that you can't help him with.
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