usdaprime Posted November 21, 2004 Posted November 21, 2004 I need some advice on wether this woman is showing interest in me or what she is doing. I will call her Mandy. Mandy is 30 years old shy/low self esteem recently divorced. She start working where I do about a year ago. She told people that she stays to herself and does not really talk until she gets to know people better. Now I was standing outside one day by myself and Mandy came walking up. I was on the phone at the time and didn't really pay attention to where she went. Since we don't speak to each other I figured she was standing on the other side. I really could not tell because there was a post in between us. I then hear a noise and there she is standing on the other side of the post I was standing next to about 3 feet away. It just stuck me as odd that she was standing right there when I don't really talk to her. I figured she may of wanted to talk to me?.? I think? most people would stand on the other side since they don't speak?.?.? Another time I was talking to this woman that I know. And Mandy and her little group of friends walked by and the went to get something to drink. Then Mandy comes from behind the corner and looks at me and this woman whom I was talking to. She then went behind the corner again. I then looked and she was standing there smoking. Apparently she didn't go with her friends. Lastly We are on break about 15 people. Mandy is standing with her little group of people and I am talking to my little group. Well I am talking about something and apparently Mandy was listening and she just jumps in my convo. I was kind of shocked because she is shy. So is she interested? Am I popular that just just wants to talk to me for some reason?
mj108 Posted November 21, 2004 Posted November 21, 2004 I think she is interested. I think she is shy & scared to talk to you. You say she recently divorced...I don't know her situation but if the guy hurt her---then she's going to be distant. It's going to take her awhile to go out & date again since she recently divorced. Just give it time. It does sound like she is interested in you. I don't know when she got a divorce---or how long she was married...etc...but if you are interested in her...give it time. She just got a divorce & this is all new to her (getting back into dating and meeting new people.)
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