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[Update] Half a year after break-up and 3 months of NC


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Hey, everyone!

 

So, I just came to write a small update on how I've been doing and such since the last time I posted something. First, here's a summary of what happened: we dated for 2.5 years until he told me he was starting to have feelings for another girl and I broke up with him. I went NC a few days later but broke it twice because I thought I was ready. I haven't contacted him since June, now.

 

I still miss him, I admit it. Not only as a boyfriend, but also as a friend. I think about him a lot, although it doesn't hurt as much anymore. He was my biggest support, after all. We talked everyday for 2 and a half years.

 

Sometimes, I think I've made some progress, but whenever someone talks about him... my heart starts beating really fast and I get sad. I keep thinking what I did wrong, if he misses me, if he's really as happy as he seems, etc. One thing I'm sure of is that it doesn't hurt as much anymore, but it still stings a lot.

 

Is it normal that I am not over him even though it's been half a year since the break-up?

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My ex and I were together for 4 years, at the very end we were having too many problems he started getting interested in another girl. I know how you feel. We talked every single day for 4 years.... I don't really know what to say, except that I can kind of understand how you feel.

 

Good luck!

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It's only been 6 months, and he broke your heart :( It will take many more months......

 

BUT....

 

You are on your way to finding peace again...... :)

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