His friends are deciding whether he should be with me or not

[strawberriesncream26]

[color=olive][/color]I was dating this guy and everything was perfect. He gave me just the right amount of emotion and feelings that I needed. So, we fell in love. Now we were only together for two months when he first told me. All of a sudden about a week after we expressed that we loved each other he started hanging out with this friend of his more often. Now this guy is jealous and was so sweet to me when my man wasn't around but sure enough when he was there he treated me like scum and my boyfriend never took up for me. I dealt with it and just chalked it up to being guy stuff. In the last few weeks of our relationship (4 months) my man became more distant and would get mad If I called him when he was with his friends. Then one day he just quit talking to me altogether. Instead he let his friends call me. I did not get angry with him or anything I was being normal and his friends jumped all over me telling me that I needed to leave him alone. Not knowing what I had done (actually nothing) I tried to contact him but he acts like he can't face me and sends his friends to do his dirty work for him. His friend broke up with me, and called constantly trying to get me man by telling me stuff like he is with another girl. I know neither one of his two best friends (who he sees everyday) have girlfriends. I think they are jealous and want him to be like them. I don't understand.

[Merin]

Heres the sad thing.. Your EXBF IS just like his friends.. Immature.

 

Sorry.. I'm sure you didn't do anything wrong to have deserved this kind of treatment...

 

I must say that this guy CAN'T be called a MAN.. A MAN doesn't have his little friends call and break up with HIS girlfriend for him.. thats just lame, immature and only one step above resorting to *check the box yes or no if you like me*

 

Good riddence to him! You can and will do better than this.

 

Good Luck

[ps123]

Heres the sad thing.. Your EXBF IS just like his friends.. Immature

 

I agree. The first thing that entered my head as I was reading this was, how old is this guy?

 

You dont need this at all. He sounds like a complete immature coward who cant think for himself or deal with anything himself. To have his friends call you to break up with you is almost funny. Unfortunately, it happened to you so its not funny. I can say though, that this did happen to me...in 6th grade (not joking). Is he aware that his friends still call you? You should just block the number and move on.

[head/heels]

to F off and save yourself from more tears and heartbreak!

[Amethyst]

You're MUCH better off without this guy. Think about it: Do you really want to date someone who can't think for himself and must have his decisions made by those around him?

[morrigan]

What kind of person allows their friends to make their private decisions for them? An immature fool.

 

Strawberriesncream, maybe this guy will grow up in 5 years. Of course, I wouldn't wait for him to do so---dump him and find a man who has his own mind and knows how to treat a woman with respect.

[theone44]

Originally posted by strawberriesncream26

[color=olive][/color]I was dating this guy and everything was perfect. He gave me just the right amount of emotion and feelings that I needed. So, we fell in love. Now we were only together for two months when he first told me. All of a sudden about a week after we expressed that we loved each other he started hanging out with this friend of his more often. Now this guy is jealous and was so sweet to me when my man wasn't around but sure enough when he was there he treated me like scum and my boyfriend never took up for me. I dealt with it and just chalked it up to being guy stuff. In the last few weeks of our relationship (4 months) my man became more distant and would get mad If I called him when he was with his friends. Then one day he just quit talking to me altogether. Instead he let his friends call me. I did not get angry with him or anything I was being normal and his friends jumped all over me telling me that I needed to leave him alone. Not knowing what I had done (actually nothing) I tried to contact him but he acts like he can't face me and sends his friends to do his dirty work for him. His friend broke up with me, and called constantly trying to get me man by telling me stuff like he is with another girl. I know neither one of his two best friends (who he sees everyday) have girlfriends. I think they are jealous and want him to be like them. I don't understand.

 

 

 

 

I see some homosexual tenecies going on here or i could be wrong. I will never let no-one not even my best friend get in between me and the woman i love........