bobwhite007 Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 I know we been over it and over it and you all are sick of hearing about it but I can't handle it much longer. Its eating me alive and I dont know what to do. I give up on her tellin me anything. I think if I knew the truth I could get better. I cancelled the meeting with the close friend, our preacher, because I don't want him to know. I have really been trying to push it out of my mind with no success. I have had the man she was texting and calling and who knows what else's number pulled up and ready to call several times today but haven't pushed send. I found out his company was working in town the same time I tracked her to the graveyard. I should have approached them then. I know what was/is going on. Nothing on var or gps in the past couple of weeks, all business. She has been sweet as sugar to me. Brings me a plate at supper time and has gone back to taking care of me. I try really hard but I can't get over it. I have to have the truth. This all can be fixed, maybe, but time is running out. I'm gonna do something soon but what is the question. All the joy has been sucked out of my life.
dichotomy Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 Bobwhite007 I have followed a few of your posts. I might have missed the "ah ha" post, but all I remember is suspicious but not definite calls and texts, and missing time. The VAR and GPS tracker was inconclusive. Did you ever actually find a text, email, or conversation with her discussing love or sex, or your marriage with OM? Or catch them meeting at a hotel or his house. Again, sorry - maybe I just missed this - can you summarize? Or maybe one of the other LS members summarize the final "gotcha ya" ? Sorry for the pain your dealing with. Been there.
Author bobwhite007 Posted September 15, 2013 Author Posted September 15, 2013 For her sake, you need to just leave. For her sake? What do you mean by that?
Author bobwhite007 Posted September 15, 2013 Author Posted September 15, 2013 Bobwhite007 I have followed a few of your posts. I might have missed the "ah ha" post, but all I remember is suspicious but not definite calls and texts, and missing time. The VAR and GPS tracker was inconclusive. Did you ever actually find a text, email, or conversation with her discussing love or sex, or your marriage with OM? Or catch them meeting at a hotel or his house. Again, sorry - maybe I just missed this - can you summarize? Or maybe one of the other LS members summarize the final "gotcha ya" ? Sorry for the pain your dealing with. Been there. No, other than the 70 + texts and dozens of phone calls in a two month span. The texts and calls when we were on vacation. The one call I have recorded is very garbled and can only pick out a few words. The first thing she said was " Hi there" when he answered. She text him more than me, a lot more. Funny she also said about the phone call the same thing you did. "You never heard us talk about sex". She thought I was sleeping late last night and she was texting someone, why didn't I grap the phone then? I dunno. It was not someone in her contacts as there was no name. I couldn't see it very well looking over her shoulder. She makes me feel foolish when I tell her what iam thinking so I have quit telling her.
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