lamarr Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 okay so I need help on deciding if this girl is interested even though she has a boyfriend. so when I first started working at my job in the mall I saw this girl and I immeadiately went over to talk to her. also if it matters i work in the mall and she worked at one of the vendors and they don't really talk to any1 but the one other person that may work with them. so we must have been talking for 10-15min and then she made a comment about her boyfriend but the way she said boyfriend it seemed like she was fed up. Usually wen ever girls try to let you know they have a bf if they are happy they wouldn't say it like this right? At the time i should of asked about it but i didn't want to get too personal i guess since this was the first time i talked to her. after she said she had a bf we talked for 5min prob then i said it was nice talking to you and she said the same thing and it seemed she actually ment it. btw i didn't ask for her # and she didn't know what part of mall i worked. so as i was leaving she said "Wait!" then i turned around and she tried to recover if that makes sense and she asked me where i worked then i told her and left. i should of asked for her # but she said she had bf so. maybe a month later i finally see her again i go up to her and ask if she remembers me then she smiles and says yes. we catch up a bit then i asked if she mind if i get her number. then she said she had a boyfriend and that she was actually gonna be with him after work. also as she saying this she is looking down at the counter and not me. so then i say that's fine we could still meet up to study right? (because we are taking same math class and both hate math. we both go to diff campuses though) then she smiled and she gave me her number. after i left i texted her my name then she texted back "okay ill save it :)" So from reading this what do yall think. she knows i suck at math cause i failed this class already so its not like she is using me to pass. also would a girl lie about having a bf to test me or something? so please give me your advice this is the first girl i met in a while that makes me want to be in a relationship.
Dallers Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 After reading this I think, she has a boyfriend. A girl lets you know this for one reason. They are not interested and you are wasting your time. You walk away. If a girl lets you know this because she wants to screw you while having a boyfriend. You also walk away. Wasting time here matey go look elsewhere.
Author lamarr Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 so you never heard of a girl that is in a relationship she really doesn't want to be in. I mean if she does have a bf. she has to tell me, that's not something she would leave out even if she is unhappy right?
Dallers Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 so you never heard of a girl that is in a relationship she really doesn't want to be in. I mean if she does have a bf. she has to tell me, that's not something she would leave out even if she is unhappy right? If she didn't want to be in the relationship. She wouldn't be in the relationship. She is either not interested or a dog. Honestly save yourself the trouble as you might be so focused on this girl who will end up as nothing that you miss out on one that might.
Author lamarr Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 first let me start by saying I appreciate your comments. but idk should I at least still try to be friends at least. I don't want to just forget about her and don't get me wrong im not stuck on her per say. ill still talk to other woman. has any1 here liked a girl in a relationship and still ended up with her. and ladies please feel free to chime in
Dallers Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 first let me start by saying I appreciate your comments. but idk should I at least still try to be friends at least. I don't want to just forget about her and don't get me wrong im not stuck on her per say. ill still talk to other woman. has any1 here liked a girl in a relationship and still ended up with her. and ladies please feel free to chime in You can always be friends with anyone. You just know yourself if being around her will make you want her or not and if you need to stay away from her to move on. That is something you need to decide on depending how you feel. You can pursue a girl who is taken, but what do you think will happen when she is bored of you and cheats on you in the same way?! Cheating is a two way thing, the person that is single is just as guilty by ignoring the feelings of thy fellow man who she is with now. I used to cheat when I was younger, I will never do it again because at the time could not see what damage I was doing. If I could go back now, how I would punch myself in the face.
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