Amelie1980 Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 I can't believe this has happened. Those of you who remember me will know what a mess i was when I got dumped last year. I finally got well on the road to recovery in the summer and let it go. He has started sending me emails and texts. I replied to one and ignored the rest. he is slowly telling me stuff about his life, I know he's moved offices and is very close to me. We will be going through the same rail station morning and evening. Is this something I should leave well alone? Or ask him what he wants? It I didn't know better id say he was trying to show off or impress me on his texts.
hurts2death Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 ignore unless you want to get dumped again. i have been dumped less a month ago after 3 year RL my first real girl so i know how it feels. why quastioning? you forgot the heartbreak he gave you? give him a restrain order better. are you over him 100%?
vendaboyhuli Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 I can't believe this has happened. Those of you who remember me will know what a mess i was when I got dumped last year. I finally got well on the road to recovery in the summer and let it go. He has started sending me emails and texts. I replied to one and ignored the rest. he is slowly telling me stuff about his life, I know he's moved offices and is very close to me. We will be going through the same rail station morning and evening. Is this something I should leave well alone? Or ask him what he wants? It I didn't know better id say he was trying to show off or impress me on his texts. Do you still love him ? If so continue talking to him but don't be the one who initiate contact , just treat him like one of your guy friend If you don't like him don't talk to him
Author Amelie1980 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 No haven't forgotten. Not hurt now, just annoyed with him. Best to just ignore?
Balzac Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 Each response you make reinforces his continued contact. Not a good thing. 2
Author Amelie1980 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 Do you still love him ? If so continue talking to him but don't be the one who initiate contact , just treat him like one of your guy friend If you don't like him don't talk to him I don't think I love him anymore. I haven't seen him since last year so of course my feelings have become very cool. He emailed me out of the blue a few weeks ago. I replied very cooly and he replied to me very quickly asking how I was telling me about his office move etc. There is one possibility that scares me: he May be wanting to throw his new life in my face and be cruel again. but I guess why would he do that.
Ireallydontknow Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 The rule I've seen on here is, if you have to ask us on here, you should probably back off.
mtnbiker3000 Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 I would go back to NC. Sounds like you are not ready to be friends. Why risk more pain? Why risk all of the progress you've made in the last year? You don't know what continued contact will bring. However, you do know what NC will bring. I would stick to NC... 1
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