johndoes Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 Last night was interesting. Here is how it started. First of we both are 25 and talked and dated for about 6 months but we have known each other pretty much through our middle and high school career. She broke up cause she was still in love with her ex from 7 years ago and they started talking again but as of right now nothing has ever came of it. Last night I'm out doing my own thing and my roommate/best friend got a text from my ex asking him to come out for drinks. Don't think about that they both are just really good family friends since birth. But they go out and they had conversations about me and her other ex(the one from sevens years ago) and that is all they talked about for 4 hours. Well I get a text from her in the beginning from her asking me to come out and I told her I was staying in. Told me if I changed my mind I should come out. Fast forward to last call I texted my roommate if you guys need a ride let me know. Well they did and I went and picked them up. Dropped her off at her apartment and had home. Five minutes after leaving she texted me saying I should of came in. Then she texted me that she wished I would of stayed. I finally texted her back saying I couldn't but we could go out some other time. She texted back saying she understands and that she was sorry and told me good night. I don't know what to think...I'm really confused right now. How do I take this or what should I do.
Balzac Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 You've failed to share whether you want a relationship w her. I'm not sure how you feel about enabling their discussing you, drinking but asking you for a ride? Not stated but implied was they were to drunk to drive?
Mariposa10 Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 Hmmm, this is really really complicated... She might have felt alone yesterday or sad.... Be careful, try not to read too much into it. If she does want to have a relationship with you she'll let you know. Good luck.
Author johndoes Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 I don't know what I want...I have mixed feelings about getting back together but I really don't think there is ever going to be a chance. And yes they were to drunk to drive
Author johndoes Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 My main question is should I get in contact with her and see if she wants to meet up and talk about everything
Balzac Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 Be smart - move on. Don't be her emotional tampon. 1
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