joemax Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 Hello everyone I'll try to make a long story short. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. She's 21, I'm 25. We've had our issues down the road but always managed to find a way to work things out. Anyways, yesterday she slept over at my house. We watched a movie and then she fell asleep. I decided to go on the laptop and check out facebook for a bit. I typed in the URL and then see that she hadn't logged out. I guess the last page she was on was her messages because that's the page I landed on, and my immediate reaction was to to log out, but before my mouse could even reach the log-out button I noticed a message she had received from a guy. Message preview was just him saying "hey you dont talk to me anymore?". I don't know, but seems weird to me. How should I approach this? I had to run to work this morning so didn't mention anything to her. Should I wait and see if she'll bring it up? Should I make her message him so I can get some answers? I'm just looking for another perspective please, thank you.
Dallers Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 (edited) ? So you snooped on her Facebook and noticed that a guy, probably her ex or someone that likes her contacted her as that she no longer contacts him or wants to entertain him and this is most likely because she is now with you and is faithful. You are a lucky man. She on the other hand should be more careful with her privacy around you. You certainly do not have any leg to stand on of accusing her of anything, not that she has done anything wrong at all anyway.... Edited September 14, 2013 by Dallers
Author joemax Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 ? So you snooped on her Facebook and noticed that a guy, probably her ex or someone that likes her contacted her as that she no longer contacts him or wants to entertain him and this is most likely because she is now with you and is faithful. You are a lucky man. She on the other hand should be more careful with her privacy around you. You certainly do not have any leg to stand on of accusing her of anything, not that she has done anything wrong at all anyway.... Well we have been together for two years...so if she was talking to a guy inappropriately a couple of months ago then that's not cool...
KatZee Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 You have no clue if she's been talking to a guy inappropriately. You really started a whole thread and are contemplating having a confrontation over, "hey you don't talk to me anymore?" Mountains out of molehills is all I have to say.
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