Is your significant other the one you've had the most lust over?

[Clockwork]

Just a simple question. For me, yes, my wife is someone I have felt the most lust towards (and love of course, lol)

Edited September 14, 2013 by Clockwork

[xxoo]

Yes.

 

My joke is that I could be married to Brad Pitt (who I find very attractive), and I'd be in trouble if I met my husband. He just casts a spell over me.

[dichotomy]

That's a complicated answer.

 

Strange as this may sound for a man, my lust is tied into hers - and the level of love and intimacy. Its a feedback loop - a circle - that feeds on itself.

 

So let me simply say it could be...

Edited September 14, 2013 by dichotomy

[Phoe]

I'm single, but the person I've had the most lust over in my life, is someone I've never even so much as kissed.

[miss_jaclynrae]

No.

Lust for me is fleeting, and I experience it with almost every man I am with.

[winterpast]

Been with my husband for 10 years (married 6 in Jan.) I can honestly say I still get feelings of lust/butterflies/love etc. with him. And I've never had that much passion for anyone else.

[Silly_Girl]

No. I've had relationships where I'm practically permanently on heat

 

This isn't like that. We have that facet to our relationship but it's a smaller proportion of focus than it has been in my two prior relationships. But this is the best, most rounded relationship I've ever had.

[cocorico]

Oh god yes! And it doesn't get any easier with time....

[Clockwork]

I'm single, but the person I've had the most lust over in my life, is someone I've never even so much as kissed.

 

Nice back story to that one I am sure.

[Got it]

Absolutely. It has calmed some but just seeing him gives me butterflies in the stomach and a silly grin on my face.

[Solcita2]

I'm happy to say YES... we even said that if we ever break up, please let's keep having sex with each other.

However, when we had rocky times I didn't feel much lust for him... (or anybody actually)

[peaksandvalleys]

No he isn't. But he is certainly the one who I loved with my whole heart and wanted to make his life better. I wanted the best for him and would do anything to protect him from harm. I guess for me that is love and lust is fleeting.

[LittleTiger]

Yes.

 

The strange thing is, the longer I've known him the more I lust after him. I've always found the opposite in previous relationships.....but then this is the first relationship I've had which has improved significantly over time.

[MrWindupBird]

No, not my wife.

 

I've had the most lust for the one who got away.

[thoselipsdamn]

No, I don't think I have ever lusted over my husband. Have I ever loved anyone as much as my husband? NO

 

I usually lust for the ones I can't have.

[Leegh]

There have been several guys that were my first choice, but didn't like me. But, on the other hand, I'm sure the guys who rejected me have been rejected by women also. In addition, it can be hard being "in love" with someone, and sometimes a relief to not be in a relationship.

[Arabella]

No. I've lusted after other men a lot more than I do over my SO.

 

The reason for this is that he's never been super interested in sex like other men are. I have a very high sex drive, but he couldn't handle it (nor did he want to), so I had to tone it down. As a result, over time I've lost some of my sexual desire for him.