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[lovelygirl86]

this is long so sorry and excuse the grammar lol…Ok so me and my ex were together for almost a year. We had some great times in the beginning he was sweet and charming. However the relationship started to turn…he started to ignore me…go off on me for no reason when I was just trying to be there for him when he was going thru tough times…he was so distant from me and yes it hurt..so I distant myself as well….Well I remember while we were together that I was in the mist of deleting a very old dating site profile (POF) and I saw him on there. I asked him politley with out acussing him of anything and he only had one picture on there…he said he forgot he had it and he doesn’t remember the password to delete it after I ASKED him to…..so I left it alone…I had to because the relationship was already on the rocks…..ok so the relationship still continued downhill and he just ended up breaking it off with me…..I went into the NC and he was the one contacting me all the time..like allllll the time..lol….Ok thats the background…now I get a call from my best friend saying that he is still on POF and he has even more pictures up…Im like “wait he said he forgot that password” so therefore that was a lie to me….I didn’t even think about you being able to click on “forgot pasword” and having it sent to u…I don’t understand and I feel as if he just wanted to keep the page as a “just in case” or a backup plan. I feel that I was taken advantage of in the relationship because, I paid for EVERYTHING I was the one who went to pick him up and go on dates…I paid for my own bday dinner with him…smh…i know dum in love…but I loved the guy and he “claimed” to be in a messed up situation…so I helped and didn’t bother to ask him for no money…but as soon as his career was jumping off he up and changed on me and left me as if I wasn’t there when he had nothing. I just wanted to vent a little and get some advice..sorry so long

[Kizza]

Some people, sadly enough, are just users :/

 

Learn from this and never be user friendly again is what I would do.

 

I know it's hard because when you like someone you want to please them and have them like you back. Next time you will know what red flags to look for.