Cancer_girl7893 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I dont know what to do anymore. It seems like he doesnt want to see me. Every weekend he has something to do now when 2 months ago he put all his attention on me. Everytime I ask him and say do you want to stop seeing me he gets an attitude and say your thinking to much. He says he wants to take things slow but I wasnt expecting things to be this slow. So should I stop talking to him or let him be? Some background information: we have been dating for almost 3 months. Im 20 and hes 22
pteromom Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 So spend your weekends doing something fun for yourself. I wouldn't necessarily break up, but I would certainly adjust your expectations of him. If he steps up when you start making yourself happy without him, great. If not, at least it will be easier to move on. 3
Scales Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I dont know what to do anymore. It seems like he doesnt want to see me. Every weekend he has something to do now when 2 months ago he put all his attention on me. Everytime I ask him and say do you want to stop seeing me he gets an attitude and say your thinking to much. He says he wants to take things slow but I wasnt expecting things to be this slow. So should I stop talking to him or let him be? Some background information: we have been dating for almost 3 months. Im 20 and hes 22 I would do a freeze. Taking a break from him and letting him you aren't just around when he needs you is a good idea. If you're worried he is going to break up with you, if he wants to there is nothing you can do about it. No behavior or action can save you if thats what he wants. I would start looking else where for a bit.
nescafe1982 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Focus on you and pull back from him a bit. If he's still into you, he'll come a running when he senses some new distance. Sometimes dudes just need some space; if you let them have it they spring back. Do fun things with your girlfriends or by yourself; keep your mind off this for a bit and see how he responds Are you guys exclusive? If not, he may be retreating. But my advice would be the same: pull back a bit and allow him some space. Ball's in his court once you stop pursuing. 1
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