sunmoonstars Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I got to my boyfriend's house last night and noticed that his passenger side sun visor was down. He was at work yesterday and claims he had no one in his car. This is the first time it has ever been down when he didn't have a friend in the car. I walk by his car every morning and every night and it has been up every time. He claims he doesn't know how it got down and he "must have put it down without thinking" to "block the sun" or "keep the heat out of the car" (he has no AC in his car). But this is the first time it's happened and there has been sun and heat all summer. I think he might have had another girl in his car. I confronted him about and he just joked around and said no. He also worked about 40 min later than usual (which is normal for him, he works for a family business and can't leave until his brother arrives) and usually calls me when he's on the road to come home. But yesterday he called me then a few min later said "ok I'm at my car now". This is unusual for him, he never does this. Something just doesn't feel right about this part, but I don't know if I'm being silly.
CherryT Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 We need more information. Does he have a history of being untrustworthy? The fact that he normally calls you and just called you a few minutes later could mean nothing. If it's a family business, could someone have just sat in his car? But he didn't take them anywhere?
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Hmm too close to call. I am not sure why you are looking into this so closely. It makes me think there are other signs besides this.
crederer Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Sun visor down? Serious? Maybe the sun was in his eyes and the sun visor blocked it. Calm down and schmerk a berl.
PlumPrincess Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Do you think you are being jealous? If not, then listen to your gut.
Keenly Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 His sun visor? Really? REALLY? We are going to let her be this insecure? Do you realize how insane that sounds? 1
PlumPrincess Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 His sun visor? Really? REALLY? We are going to let her be this insecure? Do you realize how insane that sounds? Seriously, sometimes it's minor details that are so telling. Maybe unconsciously she noticed a change in his behavior, but she consciously was only able to explain it with, "the sunvisor was down."
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 His sun visor? Really? REALLY? We are going to let her be this insecure? Do you realize how insane that sounds? We don't know the whole story. Often when people observe every little detail like that, their trust in someone has been broken. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 In and of itself, I don't think a sun visor means anything. Have you noticed other strange behaviour recently? 1
Ninjainpajamas Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 It could've been worse, the glove compartment could have been wide open...there's no turning back from that one. Joking aside, you probably have more of a reason than you're letting on of why you are suspicious about this one minor thing. 2
Dallers Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I think it is disgusting that he could even consider allowing someone else to sit in his car apart from you, I would not trust him for a second. On the other hand it is woman like you that remind me why I decide to stay single and happy. God bless you.
Eternal Sunshine Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 It could've been worse, the glove compartment could have been wide open...there's no turning back from that one. Joking aside, you probably have more of a reason than you're letting on of why you are suspicious about this one minor thing. Ha! Even a cynic like you doesn't think this is a sign of cheating
Ninjainpajamas Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Ha! Even a cynic like you doesn't think this is a sign of cheating Wait for iiiiit... 2
Author sunmoonstars Posted September 17, 2013 Author Posted September 17, 2013 We need more information. Does he have a history of being untrustworthy? The fact that he normally calls you and just called you a few minutes later could mean nothing. If it's a family business, could someone have just sat in his car? But he didn't take them anywhere? He doesn't have a history of being untrustworthy, but he has a history of lying about stupid stuff. I specifically asked if anyone had been in his car at all and he said no.
Author sunmoonstars Posted September 17, 2013 Author Posted September 17, 2013 Do you think you are being jealous? If not, then listen to your gut. I'm a jealous person and little things like this always upset me
Author sunmoonstars Posted September 17, 2013 Author Posted September 17, 2013 Seriously, sometimes it's minor details that are so telling. Maybe unconsciously she noticed a change in his behavior, but she consciously was only able to explain it with, "the sunvisor was down." He hasn't really had any changes in behavior. We actually just got back from a week vacation and have been spending a little more time together.
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