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Quick summary of this girl and I:

 

We met a few weeks ago at a concert, talked for quite a bit and hit it off pretty well. Earlier this week we met at another show, and talked quite a bit again afterwards. Her and her friend invite me over afterwards to hang out -- she invites me to her bed at the end of the night, lays some boundaries but we still have an amazing make-out and cuddle session. In the morning I ask her if we could do this again, she says this Sunday she's available -- gives me her number and asks me to call her so she can have mine right away. I could tell she was really into me, how she liked my honesty and character and all that stuff, and that I'm a good kisser and cuddler (and she was great too :love:)

 

So over the past few days we've texted back and forth, casual stuff, a little flirty but nothing crazy, mostly just chit chat. One text it took her about 12 hours to respond to. Anyways, to the point -- I called her today and got no response, plus she doesn't have a voicemail set up on her phone (An iPhone even!) so I couldn't leave a message. Now like I said it took her a while to respond to one of my previous texts, so I'm thinking she's probably busy. So how do I go about sending a text saying I want to set up this date on Sunday? I don't want to come across as desperate... I'm intrigued by this woman and really like her, I just want to make a good impression on her just for the possibility of maybe dating in the future

 

Am I just over-analyzing this or should I just send a text being up-front telling her I'd like to meet up again and hang out? Advice would be great sooner than later!

 

Thanks!

 

*I also understand that she's probably busy at this time packing up for a move about an hour away, so she might be tying up loose ends with friends and family. But she was the one that suggested meeting up again and even set up a general time.

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So I sent her a text that I wanted to talk to her over the phone about setting up a date. She ends up calling me a few minutes later and I answered in my "work" voice because I'm at work. She called me out saying that i was the one that wanted to talk, started giggling, tells me to call her later. I think I'm all good :love::lmao:

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