Csmith224422 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 So I went on 2 dates with this girl. Once for a quick lunch during work and another time for drinks and dinner. I haven't made "the move yet" So she takes a long time to respond to my texts and I'm always the one initiating contact. We joke around a lot and have talked about me coming over and cooking for her. Anyway, I texted her 2 days ago on Wednesday night and said "if you're free this weekend, lets hang out" and still don't have a response (its now Friday). Could it just be that she's not interested in me? How do I tell?
TigerCub Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 So I went on 2 dates with this girl. Once for a quick lunch during work and another time for drinks and dinner. I haven't made "the move yet" So she takes a long time to respond to my texts and I'm always the one initiating contact. We joke around a lot and have talked about me coming over and cooking for her. Anyway, I texted her 2 days ago on Wednesday night and said "if you're free this weekend, lets hang out" and still don't have a response (its now Friday). Could it just be that she's not interested in me? How do I tell? Her taking 2 days and still not answering to your date invite should be a clear indication that she's no interested. I'm sorry. If a guy I liked texted me or emailed or whatever asking me out, I wouldn't wait 2 days to let him know because I would expect that he's so good that he'd make other plans if I don't respond. And, also, I'd be excited to make plans with him. 3
MrCastle Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Cast this fish back into the sea my friend. 3
Author Csmith224422 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 She finally did respond but said she's going to visit her family this weekend (who live 1 hour away from us). I was just going to respond and say oh well maybe next weekend we can catch up. Enjoy family time.
Mliu Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 She finally did respond but said she's going to visit her family this weekend (who live 1 hour away from us). I was just going to respond and say oh well maybe next weekend we can catch up. Enjoy family time. took her a while to respond though
Author Csmith224422 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 I know - but some of my friends are life that as well with everyone. Some people aren't great texters. Maybe I just need to go out with her and make a move already. Either get rejected or accepted. Just need to do it.
Imported Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 (edited) She probably asked or read before on some internet forum what to say when a guy does a "luke warm" invitation like "lets hang out". And OMG, it was via txt too. And holy ****, only 3 days out. Supposedly a guy is not really showing any interest if he only txt and his idea of a plan is 'lets hang out'. What-eva I don't know what your girl or that girl expected and if it would have gone different if you had called verbally, had something specific planned and asked her on a Monday or Tuesday to RSVP for the weekend. Wednesday, especially towards night is verging on short notice. I don't really think you did anything wrong, but SOME women today have minds that are filled with ****. Edited September 14, 2013 by Imported 1
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