Helloprincess Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 It's been 3 months since my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me. It's been 3 months that i don't talk to him since he never tried to contact me. And i also applied no contact rule. It's been about two weeks that i've been feeling miserable. I did 2 trips during the summer, met new people and been going out with friends. I've been trying to avoid the pain. Now, i started school and im back to my routine. I am devastated again. I cry every day. I miss him so much. Never taught that after 3 months i was going to be in the same position. Please help :'( i dont think this is normal anymor. I'm in too much pain.
barky2 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Of course its normal. You guys were together for 5 years. Its going to take longer than 3 months to completely heal. Just keep fighting. Congrats on pushing thru 3 months! Grit your teeth and fight the waves of emotions that run thru you. You will be fine, I give you my word. Barky 1
Cali408 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Be grateful and proud that you are at 3 months. Stop counting. Why? Because counting tells you what you are missing. You're doing great! We all have down moments. Love yourself and instead of harping on not being with him, harp on the fact that you are doing the right thing.
forgetmenot75 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I believe it's the "3 month itch" It happened the same to me.i got really depressed last weeks And I finally contacted him. Be strong. That's my advice. I contacted him and realized hes such a loser. He was a hero in my head after 3 horrid months but when I contacted him again I saw who he really is: a jerk. Our perspective changes in 3 months. Don't be so harsh on you.
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