jimmytwowheels Posted September 26, 2013 Posted September 26, 2013 There really are a lot of jaded people here aren't there. Calling her a gutter slut, a dirty whore, saying once a cheater always a cheater bleah bleah bleah. I've been cheated on, and I've never given a second chance, because I in my head did some math and decided that the pros of leaving outweighed the cons. But that isn't always the case. OP you've done right so far, you've gotten your space and held your ground. But in her defense, she WAS honest with you, and I don't think you should go no contact or throw the entire relationship out the window. I don't actually believe once a cheater always a cheater. People can change. Maybe things won't work out for you two. Maybe they shouldn't. But I do find it sad that the concept of reconciliation is so foriegn here. Some people have said that these forums are slanted towards cynicism and no forgiveness. I'd have to agree. It's your call, it all depends on what you can live with. I hope you make the right choice.
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