He keeps saying we will be great friends if we don't end up dating

[edgygirl]

Oh no truth_seeker did she boil the bunny?

 

It makes you feel snubbed, right?

 

I got into it with one girl and then I realized the situation was too complicated. I told her: "I like you but am happy just being your friend." Um, she didn't take it too well. We're talking Glen Close in Fatal Attraction like behavior.

[Eternal Sunshine]

Truth_seeker: yes it makes me feel very unattractive. It gives me thoughts like: he doesn't even find me attractive enough for sex

 

Edgy: before you guys meet don't over think. Meeting changes everything for better or worse.

[truth_seeker]

Oh no truth_seeker did she boil the bunny?

 

No. Just said mean things to me that she never loved me or liked me. Would stalk me and make sure I would see her with other men to make me feel jealous. In some ways, I was flattered!

 

When a woman says she NEVER loved you or liked you, it means she had it real bad for you.

[truth_seeker]

Truth_seeker: yes it makes me feel very unattractive. It gives me thoughts like: he doesn't even find me attractive enough for sex

 

This of course makes you hate him, right? Would you be friends with him or just walk away?

 

How would you feel if the guy said he liked you but was happy just to be your friend, then went after one of your girlfriends?

 

Your reaction?

[emva07]

I just say be prepared for anything, you never know what someone's intentions are. Don't disregard the sex one.

 

Because like I said,you don't know how you two will feel after you meet, in which case yes, it becomes an easy way out if he DOESN'T feel an attraction to have said what he said and if he DOES feel an attraction even better.

 

It it is sex he's after, and you realize you don't like him as a relationship partner either, then you can either take it for what it is and do it

but if it's not what you want, then don't and keep looking.