Spoonss Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Ok so if you read my below post we where suppose to meet up for a 2nd date tonight. Her excuse 15 mins before we agreed to meet for drinks she said she was too tired but would like to see eachother this weekend? How do i respond to this or do i even at all. Kind of annoying. How do I handle this situation.
Sparkle304 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Say good-bye to her!!! I was in a situation with a guy who did this to me and nothing NOTHING good came from it but heartbreak and tears. If someone is truly interested in you, they will absolutely see you - tired or not!!!!! Oh, please ditch her. She is just not interested and to ditch you 15 minutes before your date = disrespectful!!!! You are worth so much more than this. It's her loss........... 1
DresdenKing Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Whatever the case may be, you should now put the ball in her court by holding back and letting her come to you. If she's interested, she'll get in touch. If she doesn't, don't get emotional or needy... just know that she's not into you, and move on. Do NOT talk to her until she messages you first unless you want her to instantly lose all respect and subsequent attraction for you. She blew you off with a lame excuse, you don't owe her anything. But she owes you.
Mws Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Ok we'll she has a full course load she's in med school but she stated she wanted to see me in the message . Should I say yes or just not reply at all???
phineas Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I don't make weekend plans with a woman unless she's my GF. Why? Because people flake 15 mins. before & then what? I'm 41yrs old. I do not have a ton of friends who are out partying every weekend night like when I was in my 20's.
kaylan Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Too tired? Dont waste you time on this bish. 1
truth_seeker Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Let her come to you. If you want to have some fun, when she contacts you, tell her you can't make it as you have plans with "someone else" ... let her know you don't need her. 1
RonaldS Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 tell her you can't make it as you have plans with "someone else" ... let her know you don't need her. Yeah....and then go actually make plans with someone else.
Author Spoonss Posted September 13, 2013 Author Posted September 13, 2013 Let her come to you. If you want to have some fun, when she contacts you, tell her you can't make it as you have plans with "someone else" ... let her know you don't need her. I will lol, but she seems a bit odd she smokes a ****load of weed and I think is kind of a big introvert. So if she genuinely was burnt out and would rather see me during the weekend so we could actually stay out late and not have to worry about waking up. Its too bad shes definatly a mysterious girl.
emva07 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I'd just say "sure"or "Ok" If she txt for weekend plans great, if not, screw it.
KAOJ Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I will lol, but she seems a bit odd she smokes a ****load of weed and I think is kind of a big introvert. So if she genuinely was burnt out and would rather see me during the weekend so we could actually stay out late and not have to worry about waking up. Its too bad shes definatly a mysterious girl. She was probably too stoned to meet you. Not cool.
truth_seeker Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I will lol, but she seems a bit odd she smokes a ****load of weed and I think is kind of a big introvert. So if she genuinely was burnt out and would rather see me during the weekend so we could actually stay out late and not have to worry about waking up. Its too bad shes definatly a mysterious girl. Dude, she sounds like a flake and a loser. I wouldn't chase her at all.
white Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Med school. Perhaps you don't know this, but that's a valid excuse for a lot of things. It's tough as balls, takes all your time in horrendous study, stresses you out beyond belief. The pressure is basically unmanageable, which is why medical academia is awash in drugs, both recreational and mentally enhancing (ask your friendly local med student about Alzheimers medication). I would cut a medical student a lot of slack. Set up the weekend. She asked to do that. Ignore these people here.
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