Kelly15 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Is it wrong to snoop, if you believe someone is cheating on? And how to you confront them without telling you snooped?
Brunettie Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I think it's wrong to snoop just because. If you're almost certain they are cheating, then I'd say go for it. I've only snooped when I knew something was up, and I was right. And as for telling them you know without telling them you snooped...I think cheating trumps snooping. Just tell them what you saw (if you find anything, which I hope you don't) and if they ask how then tell them. If they get mad, it's because they got caught.
Author Kelly15 Posted September 13, 2013 Author Posted September 13, 2013 I snooped after a good friend of his recommended I do and face me his password. I found all kinds of things. Cheating with anyone. I haven't answered his texts since and he's starting to call now. I really want answers now that I have facts and to tell him to F off. But I don't want all our friends to know I snooped or get his friend trouvé with the group of guys
Ninjainpajamas Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Yes, as long as you find the evidence. Women have a intuition about these things. The unfortunate part is they don't do anything meaningful with that evidence and look for explanations...the guy is extremely likely to either turn it on you or make excuses about it...which many women actually try to believe. So unless you can just walk away, there's no winning...as much as you want to know, you'll never know...you'll just know what he tells you.
heartshaped Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 He's not going to give you answers. He's proven he's a liar and a cheater among other things. If you talk to him he's only going to try and turn this around. He's put your health at risk and wasted your time. I don't know why you'd want to waste your breath on this guy. I am beginning to think though it's because no matter what he does you aren't going to just walk away. No one should be treated like this and anyone who treats you like this does not deserve you. 2
Brunettie Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 The unfortunate part is they don't do anything meaningful with that evidence and look for explanations...the guy is extremely likely to either turn it on you or make excuses about it...which many women actually try to believe. Yes. They get caught and try to turn it out to be your fault. I don't understand this logic.
Author Kelly15 Posted September 13, 2013 Author Posted September 13, 2013 I know he doesn't deserve, respect ,value or love. No I don't ever want him back ever! I would like him I know that he is a fake since he worries south what ppl think of him. And I know it all... I know he will lie since he's so great at it. He's going to be one miserable person by the time he's 60 I want to tell him to never call or text again, he's calling and texting. I haven't replied but I don't want to sell out his friend.
StrongLass Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Trust me Kelly15, after a couple chances it is TOTALLY worth it to sent them packing after a lie or twenty. I did.
Author Kelly15 Posted September 13, 2013 Author Posted September 13, 2013 I talked him today and told him , that we can't see each other anymore, that at this point we can't even be friends bc I know what's been going on. He took easy besides saying its a great time to leave me when I'm depressed and that he hadn't done anything wrong. I never told him how much I know, he's not worth it. I didn't argue I just said well I don't what to be with you anymore. Yesterday I feel so low like there must be something wrong with me. Today I feel really relieved and realize he's just has issues. 1
Author Kelly15 Posted September 15, 2013 Author Posted September 15, 2013 He didn't even ask how I knew , he was more sorry but still saying it was me and he could never be true to me. I'm already feeling better being free of all this.
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