Author Baby123 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 I didn't have his contact saved and I have alot of unknowns ring me for work reasons. But yes I am feeding it. Ah what am I doing I don't even know if we're a forever thing and he might loose his family again over this by picking me I am so addicted.
Journee Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 This sounds so dramatic and exhausting. Life does not have to be this way. Make a decision and stick to it. Now he goes back to start the circus all over again. You must be worn out from it all. I'm sure you all are. Why continue with this? Love, yes I know the answer. It just seems to be so over the top these affairs. Please protect your heart. Protect your sanity. 1
Author Baby123 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 It is exhausting but maybe all 3 of us need some time to figure out what we need.
jlola Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 This sounds so dramatic and exhausting. Life does not have to be this way. Make a decision and stick to it. Now he goes back to start the circus all over again. You must be worn out from it all. I'm sure you all are. Why continue with this? Love, yes I know the answer. It just seems to be so over the top these affairs. Please protect your heart. Protect your sanity. It is exhausting to everyone I'm sure. But she is correct. It is an addiction. A very strong one. people can become as addictive to toxic reationships as one is to crack. This is not talked about much. Like a crack addict,the ones prone t addiction of people cannot let go since they cannot bear the withdrawal period. They have little will power for pain that goes with it. I read somewhere affairs give you the ultimate "soulmate experience" because of limited time, competition ,obstacles,anxiety and uncertainty it creates. It heightens all your senses. What B cannot do is go through the withdrawal stage. But I guarentee if she ever did, in a few years she ould realize just how foolish thie was. In a few years afte she has dated a few healthy men without baggae(after she takes the time to get herself emotionally aware,emotionally mature,and gains confdence) she will wonder what was so fantatic about a much older man with character issues,wife and baggage who is very immature to boot. You cannot look at the big picture till you are away. Baby, you are young. Too young to be involved in this mess. This man is not the prize he seems to be. But the triangle will mess with your head and give him much more value than he deserves. Even if he left his wife, you are in a losing game. He is treating you well now in order for you to stay.It is the hook. But he ultimately is all he cares about. But in the long run, you will be the loser and he the winner if you end up in this relationship. But some people really can only learn reality when they are allowed to get into their mess they created. Be careful what you wish for. 1
jlola Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 affairadvice.wordpress.com/2012/10/24/breaking-the-addiction-to-the-affair/
Author Baby123 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 Jlola, that you so much for your post. I know what your saying makes sense I just can't see the wood for the trees. I don't think I want to end it enough the high still beats the low, ahh I'm just so torn. Sometimes I want to be a good person but sometimes I just want to be selfish and have him. He is no prize, he is very wealthy but in every other way I surpass him and I will be wealthy one day on my own merit. I'm at his apartment ATM, so I guess ill see how things go tonight...
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