Combojack5 Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 (edited) So i posted a few days ago about me getting really mad at my ex for not accepting the nc we agreed on, i was so stupid to reply and **** my self over. now yesterday she texted something about her dad buying a new house and that's she doesn't like it one bit, and more blabla about the history surrounding in one big text i said why are u even saying this to me. aren't youre friends and girlfriends good enough.? and she said cause i felt like it and i had to tell u about my dad cause i had to get it of my chest. i simply replied: and why on earth would u say it to me i haven't even talked to you in months. when she said : cause i can tell u this stuff . well u could've just said hey (name ex) i don't give a **** about you and youre stories go **** off it's not that hard... and i said wow and one again she flips out and says well then ill leave u now and i mean it this time. i replied well ok but u said this like 5 times now. and now she went cold, it's exactly what i wanted but for how long, i just know she will do this again. why would they send an ex all this crap i don't get it and that's my question really. like i know it was my fault for replying but do certain people have no respect for you, and she broke up with me. i'm like after months u tell me this crap like really.... Edited September 12, 2013 by Combojack5
Zahara Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 If she text messages you, ignore. She'll get the message at some point. NC is something you do for yourself. If you want it bad enough, you'll block her, change your number, delete without reading. It's not her responsibility to abide by your NC. It's yours.
Author Combojack5 Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 i know all that, i just mean why she wouldn't abide it. i did it when i broke up with my first love. i just respected her and left her alone.
Zahara Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 i know all that, i just mean why she wouldn't abide it. i did it when i broke up with my first love. i just respected her and left her alone. Because you're the nice guy. One who will answer even when he says NC. That already tells her you are weak for her. One who will be there for her when she needs you. You're a crutch. I'm sure she still likes talking to you, after all you both created an attachment. But that is all it is. She knows you're there to cater to her. Stay NC and mean it.
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