Mike Bowen Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Okay me an my ex girlfriend broke up , for minor reasons she felt it didn't feel right at the time. We didn't have trust in eachother we rushed things an are relationship was stressing her out. Time passed an I broke no contact with her have 2 weeks an all I said the hey how are you how have you been little things. A week passed an I said hey "her name" our break up made me learn and realize alot and I thankyou for the memories we made. She replied rather fast with wait what.? And then we still friends right then followed by I still see you as a friend whenever something is going on good or bad I always want to tell you. Ironically she never does and then asked what did you realize? I said all my wrong doings from the begining to the end . She said neither of us was at fault but hey who know might be good for eachother someday soon. I didn't want to build up false hope so I said yeah maybe. She then said sorry I disappointed you and that I wasnt everything you wanted. She then admitted to saying I'm sorry I pushed you away and that I she should of me how she felt. I said I would of liked that. She then said I really want to stay up an talk to you but I'm tired that she text me as soon as she'd wake up that she's happy I'm still in her life followed by hearts and kisses I haven't built up false hope for something that may not happen again. Anyway I stoped contacting her and she texted me hey how are you doing? I haven't texted you in awhile I miss talking to you I hole your doing good . I cracked an then we started talking up again. Her texting me first and all the time. I always ended the convo short all the time. Until these couple days she has been talking about my body and my cute smile ans etc. I forget what led to this but she has said I'm the only ex that she really liked! I asked myself then why the break up. The otherday she told me to listen to( picture on the dashboard ) it might have reference towards her and or me but I've never asked. Also the other day she said she bad a dream about me and her and she asked me out an I said I don't like you, you ain't **** to me. She woke up in a panic and started to cry. I have no clue why she would. The other day she has sent me a nude wearing my boxers and all I said something funny with a compliment. She then snap chatted me and I said my head hurts and then then everything went cold. I'm not sure why she did not reply. I believe she is talking to another guy not sure tho. Does it seem like I blew a chance with her or something I feel I maybe being stringed along so I didn't put my interest into it. If I may have blown a chance then what should I do to get one back or should I take action. I've never chased her for I didn't want to push her away. If I should take action what would you suggest I'd do? Or should I do full complete no contact? We texted for a bit last night but it was like dead the convo. She shot me an LOL so I ended convo and then she texted me again I blew it off. Ohhh what do I do?
Mariposa10 Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Sounds like she's really confused... Don't over analyze things, that will only drive you crazy. She already knows how you feel, right? And that you would want to have a relationship with her? So she'll let you know when she wants a relationship. If all this is too painful, go NC again, or LC... Good luck! Go out with your friends and have fun!
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