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i was dumped 3 months ago by my first real love. I met her when she was 17 and i was 19. The relationship lasted 5 years (no fights or sth significant). In my opinion it was a good relationship, at least from my perspective, but maybe she felt neglected or tooken for granted (couple of months before the break up).

 

During the break up she told me :"My needs have changed. I may regret it. There was not sth bad in the relationship. I wished i had met you later in my life"

 

After that we are nc because i want to respect her decision. So i wont get any answers by her. My question is: Did she try to be nice or did she mean it??? Or maybe she did not want to feel guilty?

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Honestly, I think she was being nice. She told you she wished she had known you later in life, that probably means she doesn't want to commit anymore with you. Either way, she is moving on, and you should do the same. You're both really young, you have a life to experiment with other women and find your soulmate ultimately :)

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