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I have failed ALL of you...and I'm furious

ConfusedHumanBeing

By ConfusedHumanBeing
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destroyed4sho Established Member

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i know what you mean but sometimes SOMETIMES you need to PUSH BACK..and let it all out...ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!

She had nooo reason sending those emails...she obviously had malicious intent.. fu.ck her.

I would blog all that out and send links to mutual friends...or at least blog that u have

...sorry its not the high road or the most mature but f.uck it!! u need to let ur anger out!

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mtnbiker3000 Established Member

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D4S - You're back :D Haven't heard from you in a tick...

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ConfusedHumanBeing Established Member

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HAHA I love the "no reason to go that hard in the paint" line. I literally laughed out loud on that one.

 

Yeah a stalker is what it is. Its bulls*** really. I know she wants a response though in the e-mail stating "you can read this, delete this, whatever you want" type crap. Trust me destroyed4sho, if I REALLY wanted to get back at her, I could ruin her life. I have things on her and compromising other things that could get her fired, lose her friends, and whatever else. WILL I do it? No....I'm sure getting 'even' would make me feel vindicated for about ten minutes, then back to usual if not lower after. It all honesty, its not worth it. Having venom and anger is not worth it.

 

I'm just mad that she was trying to be "nice" by telling me the reasons THEN would throw in a subtle bash at me.

 

I would post the whole letter on here, but I deleted both copies permanently. Basic jist was

"Wanted to send this for awhile

-got your letter back in the day (december) but never wrote back for good reason

-I left because I was unhappy and honestly the last year didnt see us being together forever

-I went to therapy and was going to work on myself and come back, then realized thats not what I needed or really wanted

-YOU were unmotivated and got lazy (worked ALL the time so I guess that means I'm unmotivated and lazy)

-YOU were a good person and you tried but my "needs" were not being met-you lied to me a lot

-I lost my best friend because of YOU

-When I left I was in a "relationship" with someone. not really, but thats what it was (boning another guy in a three year relationship. Faked a preggo)

- I now found _______, who treats me like I wanted you to

-I travel now, I have two jobs, a new car, my own place, and everything.

-I was co-dependent on YOU

-YOU didnt care enough

-those "bulls*** reason you said in YOUR blog was not right

-YOURE trying to use anger instead of seeing what YOU didnt do right

-I hope everything goes well for YOU and YOU succeed.

 

More or less that. Just an e-mail a year later telling me this instead of when it actually HAPPENED. But no, for two months, she left and went to therapy and telling me every line of "I'll be back I swear" "This will be good for us" "You are the one I have NO doubts" etc etc. So where she wasnt dragging me in the mud like I suggested, I havent found it.

mtnbiker3000 Established Member

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Complete rubbish!!!! F that B!!!! :laugh:

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ConfusedHumanBeing Established Member

ConfusedHumanBeing

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Complete rubbish!!!! F that B!!!! :laugh:

 

Yeah I totally agree with this statement. I guess in a way I dont see, it finally dawned on me that why would I WANT her back....I knew what kind of person she was when I dated her so I dont know why I thought she had changed. For some reason though, I still hurt by this. I havent felt THIS bad since when it happened almost a year ago. I had accepted the fact it was done and was finally getting over it. I was on here a lot more helping rather than discussing. Then this happened. Why do I feel bad again?

JDPT Established Member

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Brush it off, let bygones be bygones.

destroyed4sho Established Member

destroyed4sho

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you may be a bit sad today or tomorrow but you will get over this quick...its just a minor set.back. its been a long time. i get those too but i quickly bounce back. Eh..she didnt help you grow as a person..sounds like she made you stagnant. she wasnt worth it.

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mtnbiker3000 Established Member

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. Why do I feel bad again?

 

Because you're a well-adjusted, healthy human being!!! This person specifically tried to hurt you and unfortunately succeeded. I wouldn't worry to much about how you feel right now. You are stronger and wiser now, and you will feel just fine in a jiff :laugh:

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Chi townD Established Member

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You didn't let us down. You didn't respond (which she was probably hoping to draw you into an argument). Plus!!!! You read through her letter and you read right through the BS that she was throwing!

 

Shows me you're getting stronger!

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cavalier99 Established Member

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Good job not responding!!! Bad job letting this F*ck you up! Its nothing bro. Youll soon see how trivial this stuff is and just laugh. Rock on! Cav

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JDPT Established Member

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I commend you for not responding. In any event, don't beat yourself up over it. You would agree that the letter she formulated is nothing but BS and you had the capability to see right through it. We weather storms here, we all stand here together.

flitzanu Established Member

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if you want, i'll go comment on your blog about how horrible of a C--- she is. ;)

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PR08 Established Member

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I turned down JOBS for her (of course she knew what she felt THEN and never bothered to tell me about her "true" feelings) I saved up money I DIDNT HAVE to take her to Disneyland by doing one of those "test this drug and see what it does to your body" experiments for a week just to go

 

Congratulations on doing the right (and hard) thing by not replying to her and playing her stupid little game, but here's some tough love that will hopefully stand you in good stead for your future relationships: never, ever be so stupid again. Never put the short-term interests of someone you are dating ahead of your ambitions, drive or opportunities in life.

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destroyed4sho Established Member

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D4S - You're back :D Haven't heard from you in a tick...

 

Hi there mtnbiker!! whats up?!, yeah im still here tho..reading peoples posts. hope ur better too...i know you are its been a while for us.

I had some email drama myself. she emailed me, i poured out and my ex wrote she has a new gf and she sooo loves her, never fights with her and is sooo happy she got out of the relationship with me bc she was soo miserable!! thats what she wrote...i totally cursed her out bad and feel so damn good about it. :-)))))

its been a tough year, i see the light at the end of the tunnel tho... :/..what a waste..

 

all im.saying is...sometimes...when your down and you just keep getting kicked by the bully u need to stand up on your feet and throw some punches back...taking the high road just doesnt work when your constantly being abused.

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yessy21 Established Member

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boy is she miserable right now.

 

she is so miserable she had to email you about how happy she is.

 

dont be angry.

 

If I were you id be dancing the dance of victory... shes miserable and she knows it.

 

:) smile.

 

 

Miserable Enough to sit there in front of a computer and write an email... proof it and send it.

 

That's some miserable Sh*t.

 

LMAO

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